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The Opening of Hell GATE!!!

MUAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! Hell gate is now fully opened... July 14th in the Lunar Calender...

This Raya is so close to the opening of hell gate... predict will have increase in traffic deaths... Open your eyes wide... Dont drive too fast... Beware!

Lazy to blog... but need to remind myself
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First Day at new environment

Day 1

Cultural shock... managable
Lots to learn, time is limited
What i know about FMCG = 0
Have to catch up fast

My ex-boss told me to shut up and listen more
I did so and now my mouth stinks (talk too little) hahaha

Seriously its not my style. But i will try to be less obvious. Done that mistake in ex-company. Now need to learn how to maintain low profile... But not too low because that will be extremely not me... that way i might push myself too hard and it might snap

Advise is advise, just some comments from someone... Did someone used me in the past? Maybe... but i know now. Good words are painful to the ear but hurts more in the heart. Regardless of anything, i will still maintain friendship with the user. at the same time cant forgive the other wolf. The fact is, she is still a wolf no matter what happen. A wolf with 101 masks. but anyway out of sight, out of mind

Use the energy used in hatred into something more useful. Thanks dude for showing me this.

Now... Focus... On current Job... Make my family life better... Only one objective--> Happy Family...

Many Wont understand... but just wanna let myself know only.... Dont Understand?!?! nevermind... thats my intention.
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Humans love to assume “making an ASS out of yoU and ME”.

I remember one of my boss telling me not to assume. It is always better to get solid facts before making any approach but the fact is, its natural for human to assume. Take for example do you wake up and see if the floor is exactly where you last seen it? See we never check if there floor is still there. We assume that its there when we woke up. Imagine the trouble we have to go through if we have to check if its there every morning.

Assuming is not always wrong. Everyone makes their own assumptions. Now here is another example; When I say “Car”, which car came into your mind? It carries different meaning to different people. My definition of car may be Suzuki Swift but my boss’s car may be Mercedes Benz. Here we already made assumptions.

Here is something I picked up from a book which I think kind of meaningful:-
“ A tidy desk shows a tidy mind”, now does this means an empty desk shows an empty mind? This example shows that humans tend to generalize things.

Anyway, frequently when we speak to bosses we always lose in the debate. Wanna know why? The reason is simple, when we speak to bosses, we need to prepare evidence to support our point & grounds but when they speak, no evidence is required. They have the right to assume all they want and we cant go and sound them “where is the evidence?”.

The boss’s mind had been blurred by their past achievements. They already have a mind set that their methods are correct. The evident is now (I am the boss you are my staff). This is evident enough to diminish all other evident. Now, they have the right to assume!

Why people assume? Because it makes life easier. By assuming, I do not need to look for supportive evident to prove my point. By assuming, I need not require so much time to look for my point. Well you may find hundreds of excuses for making assumptions.

Now I am at a point where I do not know whether if assuming is right or wrong. I’m sure there is no definite answer to this question. It all depends on situation. At some point, we have to assume to make life easier but on the other hand without assumptions are better.

Well it just seems that most bosses do not understand their staffs. Well I understand my staffs but I am not a boss… hahahaha… Anyway just blogging about my thinking. It might have bored many of you out there in this article. Comeone lah… don’t be too picky lah…
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Blogging about sex & Malaysian English very kau lat

You know blogging about sex will always bring traffic to your blog. This is not a statement that I made up but its supported with documents. Try dailychilli for example. Their write-ups about sex have very huge feedbacks.

Anyway what I am more amaze is how Malaysians react to such write-ups. You see the Malaysian English is more sophisticated compared to normal English. We have multi-racial combinations towards the comments and it really makes the comments worth reading.

Funny in one sense but some are also true. The commenter really made my day. I was alone at my cubicle reading those comments and started laughing about all the comments. That had caused me to comment as well.

I read several write-ups but what really captured my attention is their write-up about “Sex twice a week keeps men healthier” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1785-sex-twice-a-week-keeps-men-healthier), “10 places where women want to be touched” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/554-10-places-to-touch-a-women ), and “Why Should you have sex everyday” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1084-why-you-should-have-sex-everyday ). These are evidence that blogging about sex will increase traffics. Hey, today these are the most emailed article leh!

The write-up is nothing uncommon. The commenter are more lively. The usage of Malaysia English is very much not in the dictionaries. It’s a mixure of Chinese Dialects, Malay words and some metaphors that only Malaysian will understand.

Anyway I think I should write more about sex since its getting more attention. Maybe this way, I would get more traffic to my blog?
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The increase of “Buang Anak” cases

*** If you will feel offended about the topic, please do not read on***

Have you every wondered why people are willing to conduct such inhumane task such as killing their baby or just let them rot by the streets. These babies are innocent and they have done nothing wrong to deserve such inhumane acts.

As a father, I seriously feel that they are losing the chance of seeing their baby grow. Surely there are times when you feel that they are a nuisance but there are also times where you are glad to have them.

Anyway I had been thinking what are the reasons that caused these parents to do so? Culture? Social pressure? Money? Well you should think of the side effects when you do not conduct safe sex. Regardless what the reasons are, throwing your babies are always not an option.

I am not only against buang anak. I am also against abortion. I knew that recently Malaysia had developed some sites to allow parents to pass their babies to safe hands. Though you might never see your baby again but at least you can ensure that they will be given a second chance to live regardless of what kind of life they might have. This option is always better than losing the chance at all.

I am happy having my baby to disturb my sleep and having my baby to stop me from smoking. Although its irritating but if you think back its kind of sweet when she suddenly run to your shoulders and hug you. When I am down, she sits patiently next to me and patting my head as if I am the baby and she is my mother.

If I had threw her away, I would never have such experience. Now even the thought of losing her hurts me so much that I would shed a tear.

One thing for sure is there had been increase in regards to buang anak cases and abortion cases. Will harsh sentence in terms of law help the decrease? I don’t think so. Just take a look at our drug trafficking sentence which is many times harsher and scarier but yet it still happens.

We need to find the root cause for the problem. From my opinion, it may be due to social pressure which caused it. These parents do not want to be the laughing stock of the public where some auntie on the streets will look at them and pointing their fingers to them and say all kinds of words.

Another cause of the problem might also be due to religion. I had been observing some people who laugh at people who skipped fasting during the fasting months. You see I don’t see the problem of the person who skipped fasting because he/she is working in an environment which hinders him/her from fasting. Example labourer, chef or iron casting industry. If they do not eat, they will die… seriously. By the way, what happens if they don’t fast? If the person don’t feel like fasting, the sin will be on them not you. Why bother and laugh at people? My point is, if someone decided to give birth without any marriage, so be it. If you laugh at them, you are enticing them to do a bigger sin such as buang anak or abortion.

Other reason which I could think of is financial problem. Parents might be too poor to sustain the life of their baby. Therefore I support the government’s move to allow parents to put their baby in those shelters. I am sure someone will be willing to adopt them or even if they are not adopted, these babies could contribute or payback their debts to the shelter by working and support the shelter which they grew up in. Of course parent’s details should be confidential to avoid future problems

The best way is always be responsible. Every action will have a chain of reactions. Anyway I do not have any authority to comment on the topic. I just felt that its wrong to do so and so just wanna blog about it. Please do not feel offended about what I say. Just some comment.
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Personality test result: ENFP

I had recently took a test online in regards to my personality. Personalities will often change and so I thought its time to take this test again. In the past I often take DISC (PPA) to see who am i. Today I took The Keirsey Personality Zone. Below is a description of my personality. The test shows that I am Idealist, Champion category.

Like the other Idealists, Champions are rather rare, say two or three percent of the population, but even more than the others they consider intense emotional experiences as being vital to a full life. Champions have a wide range and variety of emotions, and a great passion for novelty. They see life as an exciting drama, pregnant with possibilities for both good and evil, and they want to experience all the meaningful events and fascinating people in the world. The most outgoing of the Idealists, Champions often can't wait to tell others of their extraordinary experiences. Champions can be tireless in talking with others, like fountains that bubble and splash, spilling over their own words to get it all out. And usually this is not simple storytelling; Champions often speak (or write) in the hope of revealing some truth about human experience, or of motivating others with their powerful convictions. Their strong drive to speak out on issues and events, along with their boundless enthusiasm and natural talent with language, makes them the most vivacious and inspiring of all the types.

Fiercely individualistic, Champions strive toward a kind of personal authenticity, and this intention always to be themselves is usually quite attractive to others. At the same time, Champions have outstanding intuitive powers and can tell what is going on inside of others, reading hidden emotions and giving special significance to words or actions. In fact, Champions are constantly scanning the social environment, and no intriguing character or silent motive is likely to escape their attention. Far more than the other Idealists, Champions are keen and probing observers of the people around them, and are capable of intense concentration on another individual. Their attention is rarely passive or casual. On the contrary, Champions tend to be extra sensitive and alert, always ready for emergencies, always on the lookout for what's possible.

Champions are good with people and usually have a wide range of personal relationships. They are warm and full of energy with their friends. They are likable and at ease with colleagues, and handle their employees or students with great skill. They are good in public and on the telephone, and are so spontaneous and dramatic that others love to be in their company. Champions are positive, exuberant people, and often their confidence in the goodness of life and of human nature makes good things happen.
Joan Baez, Phil Donahue, Paul Robeson, Bill Moyer, Elizibeth Cady Stanton, Joeseph Campbell, Edith Wharton, Sargent Shriver, Charles Dickens, and Upton Sinclair are examples of Idealist Champions

Test webpage: http://www.keirsey.com/
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Peacefully alone… Thinking about life

Like many would think, being left alone is a bad thing. For me, I am enjoying it. Its been 5 years since I last being left alone to do my own things. Today I am glad that it is my turn to have such opportunity.

I came to work and had lots of time to stay put and do nothing. Though some people will come and meet me from time to time but I am not needed in any meetings. I do not require to handle projects and I don’t use much brain power.

All I have to do now is to settle whatever tasks which is incomplete. I am also required to handover my uncompleted businesses to my fellow colleagues… (poor people). Lol

It is a good day. I woke up nicely this morning and feel glad I am still alive… Despite the fact my daughter woke me up 4 times for milk yesterday. Even though I woke up late, I did not rush to work and the traffic was not congested at all. I arrive 2 minutes late. I also have a nice good morning kiss from my wife and daughter…

When I left home, my daughter said bye bye to me. When I reached office few colleagues said good morning to me and until not anyone bothered me for big problems. It is a great day.

After years of struggling, I finally found peace at workplace. Maybe because there are no new tasks that would upset my plans. I am really getting old fast. I honestly feel like an old man looking for peace at mind.

I had been wondering what will be waiting for me at the new company? Like their industrial name describes Fast Moving Consumer Goods I am sure this organization will surely work at high pace and will not have any time to think and look for peace. Anyway, the pay is good and if I am busy, my wife & daughter could have a better life. Its is definitely worth it.

I had realized few of my wife’s dreams but I know I will not realize more than this if I continued getting the petty salary I am getting. If this risk or big hop means more joy, more happiness for my family I don’t care if it brings me more stress.

People loves to say, money is not everything but without money you cant do anything. Money cant buy happiness I know, but without money you cant buy anything but suffering. My wife and I don’t wish for a very wealthy life but to a minimum we must have the capability to enjoy life such as traveling. If I spend every penny I earn everyday, we will never have such life.

I hope I can allow my wife to retire early and live life as a housewife. I hope she can enjoy her life and stressless. I can bear all her burden. Better 1 man sorrow than 1 family sorrow. I cant pluck the moon from the sky for her but at least I could put the reflection of the moon on her palm. Hope it will be as good as having the moon on her hand.

Looking forward to be home with her tonight. I am also looking forward for a nice dinner at Fairies Café with my boys Au Yeong & Nic. They have been very supportive subordinates and very good friends of mine.

Just like how Jason & Adrian treated me as a child, I take them like my child. To goorm them for better future just like Jason & Adrian did. Not to mention Joanne, Frances, Sally and other leaders who had once lead me before
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A new Chapter…

Not long later a new chapter of my life shall begin. I know I will start this story with fear and anxiousness but I must face it strong. Changes are always scary but if there are no changes, the world will never be better. Like Einstein once said, “if you do the same thing in the same way and the same procedure, don’t expect different result”.

Now for those who dare to dream are the crafters of the world tomorrow. It was thanks to those dreamers in the past that today we are able to fly. Now my contribution for the world may be small but if everyone contributes a little, it will eventually become a big thing.

Now, I had shared this story to some of my past superiors and they all gave me some advice. Maybe they will always treat me like a child. Like a father taking good care of their child. Regardless how old the child grown, they will always be the father’s child. Good friends like them are hard to come by. They always offer knowledge and advice to me like a father will.

Past superiors are the crafters of who I am today. My gratitude to them will never end. In return, I would like to be a father to someone else too. With that in mind, I will always treat my Executives as my child. Its time for me to craft others like how my superiors crafted me in the past.

Its time now, for my turn to take risks. Joining this new company I truly a challenge for me. I do not have the skills and knowledge in this new environment. I hope I could cope with the change and I am sure my wife & daughter have their fingers crossed and hope for the best for me. I must never let them down.

This is another step for me to take to lead a better life for my family. Regardless of what might happen, let it happen to me and not my family. Now I am closer to my target. I had set for myself to be at manager level at age of 27 since college. Now I am 27 but still at Asst. Manager level (a little out of my target). Next month I will achieve my target. Now I need a higher target than this for my next conquest.

I need to seriously think about my target for the future. What must I achieve when I am 35? What must I accomplish by the age of 40? I don’t know what I want now but I will think about it. At the mean time, just focus on climbing and be greedy
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Warehouse Sale?!? Die

Make it simple...

My company organized warehouse sale... All employees to attend!
Most employees will be there 4 days straight... i am one of them!
Now its already Day 3... My legs are not mine...
Anyway had something motivated me... wanna know? not now... share later
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