Penang here i come!!! i will be there to gain wait.. my friends and i will be going there with the objective of eating! lol... anyway it is also a good time to go out to some outing to reduce my stress level
Whats next? Taiwan & sabah trip... surely i will be broke after all these plus cny coming... got to find some part time job... anyone can introduce?lol
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Have you ever asked yourself what are you doing here?
Recently i have been asking myself what am i doing here? What am i trying to achieve by being here? What could i obtain when i am here? What will happen if i am here?
Answers:-
Answers:-
- Money
- knowledge
- bright future
- provide better life for my family
- to give joy and laughter for my family and friends
- to develop someone
- to satisfy my needs and achieve some wants
- sense of belonging
- achieve my ambition
- reach my life goal
- reduce my weakness and develop my strength
- etc
Now can you do this elsewhere? the answer is always yes but are you sure you want it?
I am sure many do not understand my question and answers. If you understood, then you may be having the same shit as me but different day and venue... lol
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Kenny
THEY are involved in my mood and temper
Who are they? of course they are my wife and daughter.
You see after a tough day at work, my only wish is to return home and be next to my family. The very first moment i see my room, wife and daughter it will play a big role towards my temper and mood for the remaining of hours of that day.
Now here are all the ifs that will happen
If i return home and find my wife playing with my daughter happily, i know i will have a very good mood. I enjoy seeing both of them playing. It really makes my day. When they are happy i will too
If i return home and my daughter came running to hug me, then i know it will be a good evening. My pampered daughter will come hugging me and kiss me on the cheek. This shows that she misses me and like me to be home
If i return home seeing my wife with a sweet smile. This will be a good day also because she is happy and i will think i did a good job as a husband, which is to give her a good life and remove her stress
If i return home and both of them dont bother and mind their own business, this day is a moderate mood day. Well they dont care of my return
If i return home and both of them are argueing, it will be a bad day.
If i return home seeing either one crying, it will be a bad day
If i return home and my wife just cleaned the room, it will be a good day because its comfortable. Then i will wash the toilet happily... lol
if i return home and my daughter trashed up the room, its a bad day because its messy and it will mess up my mind
If i return home and both of them are sleeping, then i will know i have a good day
actually there are more ifs but i could not recall now. Maybe when i recall i will reblog about it... lol
You see after a tough day at work, my only wish is to return home and be next to my family. The very first moment i see my room, wife and daughter it will play a big role towards my temper and mood for the remaining of hours of that day.
Now here are all the ifs that will happen
If i return home and find my wife playing with my daughter happily, i know i will have a very good mood. I enjoy seeing both of them playing. It really makes my day. When they are happy i will too
If i return home and my daughter came running to hug me, then i know it will be a good evening. My pampered daughter will come hugging me and kiss me on the cheek. This shows that she misses me and like me to be home
If i return home seeing my wife with a sweet smile. This will be a good day also because she is happy and i will think i did a good job as a husband, which is to give her a good life and remove her stress
If i return home and both of them dont bother and mind their own business, this day is a moderate mood day. Well they dont care of my return
If i return home and both of them are argueing, it will be a bad day.
If i return home seeing either one crying, it will be a bad day
If i return home and my wife just cleaned the room, it will be a good day because its comfortable. Then i will wash the toilet happily... lol
if i return home and my daughter trashed up the room, its a bad day because its messy and it will mess up my mind
If i return home and both of them are sleeping, then i will know i have a good day
actually there are more ifs but i could not recall now. Maybe when i recall i will reblog about it... lol
How parents always lose contol on their Child
As we could read on the Internet, there are always many stories that tell parents how they should never lose their temper on their children. Well, its always easier said than done. I recently recall a story about how a boy would like to borrow some money from his father to buy his father's time. No matter how many times i read the story, its always touching.
Well this is something that i could not do for my daughter. i am losing quality time with her. Everyday i may be at home but after a tough day at work, i don't seem to be able to find energy for her.Even at the weekend, i think i don't spend enough time with her. Maybe i am a little greedy to hope for more time with her but i think i owe my wife and daughter an apology. Why? for not spending enough time with them
Every since i joined this new company, i am always required to do many jobs which in turn caused me to work overtime. Even if i dont work overtime, i still have problems controlling my temper. Well i just lost it again recently. It must be tough for Shuen because i could even see fear on my wife. No i did not beat her because my wife and i promise never to beat our child whenever we are angry yet they are already that scared. Am i really that scary? Maybe... because my voice is loud and my angry face could scare a lion away. Just like how Zhang Fei scared Cao Cao and his troops with just a loud roar.
Now back to topic on how to control our temper. My solution and best way to do so is with the help from our better half, our spouse. Most of the time when one of the parent is angry, the other may be at normal mood. This is where he/she should intervine between the parent and the child. S/he should pull the child away from the angry person. I find that this is the best way because it allows time for the angry parent to calm down and think of their mistake
Another way which i think is useful is to walk away from the child when you are angry. I always do that and i know it works. When a person is angry, S/he will have some kinda chemical which causes angryness to happen. when time passes, this will reduce and angryness shall leave you.
Why should we not scold our child? Because they are naive and innocent. they do not know what is happenning around us. Like the chinese always say (the person who dont know is not at fault). Besides, they are following our example. If we beat them when they are naughty, we are teaching them that whenever anyone is naughty, we must beat. This will cause your child to beat anyone who is naughty including their friends and family.
I think i am a failure as a dad. I dont have much time for my daughter, i scold her when she is naughty and i also spank her when she does wrong. Eventhough its just a small light spanking but it already program her that beating is a solution to naughtyness.
Now, she is soundly asleep clinging to her mother who is also in deep slumber. What am i doing? well i intend to join them in dreamland but i need to cool myself down. My damn aircond is not cold enough to cool down my temper. Shits happens in the company.
Same shit different day....I always tell myself not to bring my work problems home but its just easier said than done. I usually do well at controlling my temper but i think its not good enough.
On the other hand, do you know that my wife and daughter play some role in my mood? Well i will write this on my next blog
Well this is something that i could not do for my daughter. i am losing quality time with her. Everyday i may be at home but after a tough day at work, i don't seem to be able to find energy for her.Even at the weekend, i think i don't spend enough time with her. Maybe i am a little greedy to hope for more time with her but i think i owe my wife and daughter an apology. Why? for not spending enough time with them
Every since i joined this new company, i am always required to do many jobs which in turn caused me to work overtime. Even if i dont work overtime, i still have problems controlling my temper. Well i just lost it again recently. It must be tough for Shuen because i could even see fear on my wife. No i did not beat her because my wife and i promise never to beat our child whenever we are angry yet they are already that scared. Am i really that scary? Maybe... because my voice is loud and my angry face could scare a lion away. Just like how Zhang Fei scared Cao Cao and his troops with just a loud roar.
Now back to topic on how to control our temper. My solution and best way to do so is with the help from our better half, our spouse. Most of the time when one of the parent is angry, the other may be at normal mood. This is where he/she should intervine between the parent and the child. S/he should pull the child away from the angry person. I find that this is the best way because it allows time for the angry parent to calm down and think of their mistake
Another way which i think is useful is to walk away from the child when you are angry. I always do that and i know it works. When a person is angry, S/he will have some kinda chemical which causes angryness to happen. when time passes, this will reduce and angryness shall leave you.
Why should we not scold our child? Because they are naive and innocent. they do not know what is happenning around us. Like the chinese always say (the person who dont know is not at fault). Besides, they are following our example. If we beat them when they are naughty, we are teaching them that whenever anyone is naughty, we must beat. This will cause your child to beat anyone who is naughty including their friends and family.
I think i am a failure as a dad. I dont have much time for my daughter, i scold her when she is naughty and i also spank her when she does wrong. Eventhough its just a small light spanking but it already program her that beating is a solution to naughtyness.
Now, she is soundly asleep clinging to her mother who is also in deep slumber. What am i doing? well i intend to join them in dreamland but i need to cool myself down. My damn aircond is not cold enough to cool down my temper. Shits happens in the company.
Same shit different day....I always tell myself not to bring my work problems home but its just easier said than done. I usually do well at controlling my temper but i think its not good enough.
On the other hand, do you know that my wife and daughter play some role in my mood? Well i will write this on my next blog
Organizations and bosses
Organizations will definately have bosses and from what i know, most bosses behave the same. in front of their staffs, they act as if the organization is doing well but deep down below they know something is rotting.
Some bosses are too hard headed to listen. It is obvious that something needs to be done but because they are reluctant to invest more money, they put the blame somewhere and put a challenge on you. Now whats worse is they did not realize that its causing people to leave
anyway better dont talk too much... just need to stay focus on my ambition. if all did not go well on this ship, find another cruise... there will always be some ship which is more suitable for me
Some bosses are too hard headed to listen. It is obvious that something needs to be done but because they are reluctant to invest more money, they put the blame somewhere and put a challenge on you. Now whats worse is they did not realize that its causing people to leave
anyway better dont talk too much... just need to stay focus on my ambition. if all did not go well on this ship, find another cruise... there will always be some ship which is more suitable for me
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Kenny
Close to giving up
Every night i frighten myself before i sleep. I never felt like this before in the past. Recently there are something that pressure me which caused insomnia. I did not sleep well... there are many things in my head... i think i made a wrong move some where...
To make matters worse, i think i might have gotten someone else into my trouble... i got my close friend into trouble.well whats done is done... now to find solution...
To make matters worse, i think i might have gotten someone else into my trouble... i got my close friend into trouble.well whats done is done... now to find solution...
Posted by
Kenny
Jason's Words of Wisdom
Recently my good ex-boss was kind enough to send me words of wisdom daily. After accumulating for some days, here is what i recieved from him. The reason i post about it is because maybe in the near future it might come in handy. Besides, SMS very soon will be all gone. Better write it down somewhere and i chose to Blog about it (Its been some time since i last blogged)
1. Lao Tzu
· To become an excellent leader, you have to abandon addiction to praise from above and flattery from below. The excellent leader leads least. He studies the distinctive skills and the natural inclinations of both those above and below, and he directs their attention to accomplish what is required to benefit all. when this has been done, all declare they have been part of a worthwhile purpose
· when you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare and compete, everyone will respect you
2. Confucius
· There are three principles of conduct of which the man of high rank should consider especially important. that is his deportment and manner he keep from violence and hardness; that in regulating his countenance he keep near sincerity; and that in his words and tones he keep from lowness and impropriety
· If one learn from others but does not think, one will be bewildered. if on the other hand, one thinks but does not learn from others, one will be at peril
· When we see men of a contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves
3. Indira Gandhi
· There are 2 kinds of people, those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there
4. Paramahansa Yogananda
· There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends.That is the magnet of unselfishness, thinking of others first. When you learn to live for others, they will live for you
5. Morita Akio
· If you go through life convinced that your way is always best, all the new ideas in the world will pass you by
6. Unknown
· He who sacrifice his conscience to ambition burns a picture to obtain the ashes
· He who asks is a fool for five minutes but he who does not ask remains a fool forever
The important moral for all these quotes are not the words but the value it brings - by marriedmansmoments!
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Kenny
New Way of life
Dear all,
i know i have not been blogging for some moment. Its due to the fact that i am too busy with my new job. Lots to learn and very tiring. Anyway in FMCG everything seems to move faster than usual.
I remember the days when i am in retail industry, everything seems so much slower than my current job. But since the pay is good i dont mind all those pressure. This may be a good stepping stone for me to grow further.
What shall i do? LEARN!! i think i will try to talk to a few friends about how they work... this way i could get a better understanding about FMCG...
Now i am lacking of an Executive... Any expreienced people would like to apply? let me know ya!
i know i have not been blogging for some moment. Its due to the fact that i am too busy with my new job. Lots to learn and very tiring. Anyway in FMCG everything seems to move faster than usual.
I remember the days when i am in retail industry, everything seems so much slower than my current job. But since the pay is good i dont mind all those pressure. This may be a good stepping stone for me to grow further.
What shall i do? LEARN!! i think i will try to talk to a few friends about how they work... this way i could get a better understanding about FMCG...
Now i am lacking of an Executive... Any expreienced people would like to apply? let me know ya!
Posted by
Kenny
No politics? Bullshit!
Well its confirm... every company have politics. my new company pride himself saying no politics all teamwork... BULLSHIT... everyone is against one lady... who else? surely HR lah... biasa wan maaa... most employee hate their hr... but anyway i dont hate her (yet)...
few colleagues are brainwashing me to become their clan... but sorry, its not easy to brainwash me... sorry... Right not i am still neutral...
few colleagues are brainwashing me to become their clan... but sorry, its not easy to brainwash me... sorry... Right not i am still neutral...
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Kenny
Facebooking one whole day
Ever since i join my new company, i have been frequent on facebook. I think its a good sign because i am a little more free compared to my ex-company but at the same time i feel useless. I did many silly mistakes but heck... i need to reduce talking
Why talk less? because i scared "sek siu siu, pan toi piu, pan yun toi piu pei yan tiu". lol
Anyway i think its a very good company. Lots to learn, lots to catch up since i am new. I think i am getting along well with my fellow colleagues. Lets see what happens next
Why talk less? because i scared "sek siu siu, pan toi piu, pan yun toi piu pei yan tiu". lol
Anyway i think its a very good company. Lots to learn, lots to catch up since i am new. I think i am getting along well with my fellow colleagues. Lets see what happens next
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Kenny
The Opening of Hell GATE!!!
MUAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! Hell gate is now fully opened... July 14th in the Lunar Calender...
This Raya is so close to the opening of hell gate... predict will have increase in traffic deaths... Open your eyes wide... Dont drive too fast... Beware!
Lazy to blog... but need to remind myself
This Raya is so close to the opening of hell gate... predict will have increase in traffic deaths... Open your eyes wide... Dont drive too fast... Beware!
Lazy to blog... but need to remind myself
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Kenny
First Day at new environment
Day 1
Cultural shock... managable
Lots to learn, time is limited
What i know about FMCG = 0
Have to catch up fast
My ex-boss told me to shut up and listen more
I did so and now my mouth stinks (talk too little) hahaha
Seriously its not my style. But i will try to be less obvious. Done that mistake in ex-company. Now need to learn how to maintain low profile... But not too low because that will be extremely not me... that way i might push myself too hard and it might snap
Advise is advise, just some comments from someone... Did someone used me in the past? Maybe... but i know now. Good words are painful to the ear but hurts more in the heart. Regardless of anything, i will still maintain friendship with the user. at the same time cant forgive the other wolf. The fact is, she is still a wolf no matter what happen. A wolf with 101 masks. but anyway out of sight, out of mind
Use the energy used in hatred into something more useful. Thanks dude for showing me this.
Now... Focus... On current Job... Make my family life better... Only one objective--> Happy Family...
Many Wont understand... but just wanna let myself know only.... Dont Understand?!?! nevermind... thats my intention.
Cultural shock... managable
Lots to learn, time is limited
What i know about FMCG = 0
Have to catch up fast
My ex-boss told me to shut up and listen more
I did so and now my mouth stinks (talk too little) hahaha
Seriously its not my style. But i will try to be less obvious. Done that mistake in ex-company. Now need to learn how to maintain low profile... But not too low because that will be extremely not me... that way i might push myself too hard and it might snap
Advise is advise, just some comments from someone... Did someone used me in the past? Maybe... but i know now. Good words are painful to the ear but hurts more in the heart. Regardless of anything, i will still maintain friendship with the user. at the same time cant forgive the other wolf. The fact is, she is still a wolf no matter what happen. A wolf with 101 masks. but anyway out of sight, out of mind
Use the energy used in hatred into something more useful. Thanks dude for showing me this.
Now... Focus... On current Job... Make my family life better... Only one objective--> Happy Family...
Many Wont understand... but just wanna let myself know only.... Dont Understand?!?! nevermind... thats my intention.
Humans love to assume “making an ASS out of yoU and ME”.
I remember one of my boss telling me not to assume. It is always better to get solid facts before making any approach but the fact is, its natural for human to assume. Take for example do you wake up and see if the floor is exactly where you last seen it? See we never check if there floor is still there. We assume that its there when we woke up. Imagine the trouble we have to go through if we have to check if its there every morning.
Assuming is not always wrong. Everyone makes their own assumptions. Now here is another example; When I say “Car”, which car came into your mind? It carries different meaning to different people. My definition of car may be Suzuki Swift but my boss’s car may be Mercedes Benz. Here we already made assumptions.
Here is something I picked up from a book which I think kind of meaningful:-
“ A tidy desk shows a tidy mind”, now does this means an empty desk shows an empty mind? This example shows that humans tend to generalize things.
Anyway, frequently when we speak to bosses we always lose in the debate. Wanna know why? The reason is simple, when we speak to bosses, we need to prepare evidence to support our point & grounds but when they speak, no evidence is required. They have the right to assume all they want and we cant go and sound them “where is the evidence?”.
The boss’s mind had been blurred by their past achievements. They already have a mind set that their methods are correct. The evident is now (I am the boss you are my staff). This is evident enough to diminish all other evident. Now, they have the right to assume!
Why people assume? Because it makes life easier. By assuming, I do not need to look for supportive evident to prove my point. By assuming, I need not require so much time to look for my point. Well you may find hundreds of excuses for making assumptions.
Now I am at a point where I do not know whether if assuming is right or wrong. I’m sure there is no definite answer to this question. It all depends on situation. At some point, we have to assume to make life easier but on the other hand without assumptions are better.
Well it just seems that most bosses do not understand their staffs. Well I understand my staffs but I am not a boss… hahahaha… Anyway just blogging about my thinking. It might have bored many of you out there in this article. Comeone lah… don’t be too picky lah…
Assuming is not always wrong. Everyone makes their own assumptions. Now here is another example; When I say “Car”, which car came into your mind? It carries different meaning to different people. My definition of car may be Suzuki Swift but my boss’s car may be Mercedes Benz. Here we already made assumptions.
Here is something I picked up from a book which I think kind of meaningful:-
“ A tidy desk shows a tidy mind”, now does this means an empty desk shows an empty mind? This example shows that humans tend to generalize things.
Anyway, frequently when we speak to bosses we always lose in the debate. Wanna know why? The reason is simple, when we speak to bosses, we need to prepare evidence to support our point & grounds but when they speak, no evidence is required. They have the right to assume all they want and we cant go and sound them “where is the evidence?”.
The boss’s mind had been blurred by their past achievements. They already have a mind set that their methods are correct. The evident is now (I am the boss you are my staff). This is evident enough to diminish all other evident. Now, they have the right to assume!
Why people assume? Because it makes life easier. By assuming, I do not need to look for supportive evident to prove my point. By assuming, I need not require so much time to look for my point. Well you may find hundreds of excuses for making assumptions.
Now I am at a point where I do not know whether if assuming is right or wrong. I’m sure there is no definite answer to this question. It all depends on situation. At some point, we have to assume to make life easier but on the other hand without assumptions are better.
Well it just seems that most bosses do not understand their staffs. Well I understand my staffs but I am not a boss… hahahaha… Anyway just blogging about my thinking. It might have bored many of you out there in this article. Comeone lah… don’t be too picky lah…
Blogging about sex & Malaysian English very kau lat
You know blogging about sex will always bring traffic to your blog. This is not a statement that I made up but its supported with documents. Try dailychilli for example. Their write-ups about sex have very huge feedbacks.
Anyway what I am more amaze is how Malaysians react to such write-ups. You see the Malaysian English is more sophisticated compared to normal English. We have multi-racial combinations towards the comments and it really makes the comments worth reading.
Funny in one sense but some are also true. The commenter really made my day. I was alone at my cubicle reading those comments and started laughing about all the comments. That had caused me to comment as well.
I read several write-ups but what really captured my attention is their write-up about “Sex twice a week keeps men healthier” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1785-sex-twice-a-week-keeps-men-healthier), “10 places where women want to be touched” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/554-10-places-to-touch-a-women ), and “Why Should you have sex everyday” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1084-why-you-should-have-sex-everyday ). These are evidence that blogging about sex will increase traffics. Hey, today these are the most emailed article leh!
The write-up is nothing uncommon. The commenter are more lively. The usage of Malaysia English is very much not in the dictionaries. It’s a mixure of Chinese Dialects, Malay words and some metaphors that only Malaysian will understand.
Anyway I think I should write more about sex since its getting more attention. Maybe this way, I would get more traffic to my blog?
Anyway what I am more amaze is how Malaysians react to such write-ups. You see the Malaysian English is more sophisticated compared to normal English. We have multi-racial combinations towards the comments and it really makes the comments worth reading.
Funny in one sense but some are also true. The commenter really made my day. I was alone at my cubicle reading those comments and started laughing about all the comments. That had caused me to comment as well.
I read several write-ups but what really captured my attention is their write-up about “Sex twice a week keeps men healthier” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1785-sex-twice-a-week-keeps-men-healthier), “10 places where women want to be touched” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/554-10-places-to-touch-a-women ), and “Why Should you have sex everyday” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1084-why-you-should-have-sex-everyday ). These are evidence that blogging about sex will increase traffics. Hey, today these are the most emailed article leh!
The write-up is nothing uncommon. The commenter are more lively. The usage of Malaysia English is very much not in the dictionaries. It’s a mixure of Chinese Dialects, Malay words and some metaphors that only Malaysian will understand.
Anyway I think I should write more about sex since its getting more attention. Maybe this way, I would get more traffic to my blog?
The increase of “Buang Anak” cases
*** If you will feel offended about the topic, please do not read on***
Have you every wondered why people are willing to conduct such inhumane task such as killing their baby or just let them rot by the streets. These babies are innocent and they have done nothing wrong to deserve such inhumane acts.
As a father, I seriously feel that they are losing the chance of seeing their baby grow. Surely there are times when you feel that they are a nuisance but there are also times where you are glad to have them.
Anyway I had been thinking what are the reasons that caused these parents to do so? Culture? Social pressure? Money? Well you should think of the side effects when you do not conduct safe sex. Regardless what the reasons are, throwing your babies are always not an option.
I am not only against buang anak. I am also against abortion. I knew that recently Malaysia had developed some sites to allow parents to pass their babies to safe hands. Though you might never see your baby again but at least you can ensure that they will be given a second chance to live regardless of what kind of life they might have. This option is always better than losing the chance at all.
I am happy having my baby to disturb my sleep and having my baby to stop me from smoking. Although its irritating but if you think back its kind of sweet when she suddenly run to your shoulders and hug you. When I am down, she sits patiently next to me and patting my head as if I am the baby and she is my mother.
If I had threw her away, I would never have such experience. Now even the thought of losing her hurts me so much that I would shed a tear.
One thing for sure is there had been increase in regards to buang anak cases and abortion cases. Will harsh sentence in terms of law help the decrease? I don’t think so. Just take a look at our drug trafficking sentence which is many times harsher and scarier but yet it still happens.
We need to find the root cause for the problem. From my opinion, it may be due to social pressure which caused it. These parents do not want to be the laughing stock of the public where some auntie on the streets will look at them and pointing their fingers to them and say all kinds of words.
Another cause of the problem might also be due to religion. I had been observing some people who laugh at people who skipped fasting during the fasting months. You see I don’t see the problem of the person who skipped fasting because he/she is working in an environment which hinders him/her from fasting. Example labourer, chef or iron casting industry. If they do not eat, they will die… seriously. By the way, what happens if they don’t fast? If the person don’t feel like fasting, the sin will be on them not you. Why bother and laugh at people? My point is, if someone decided to give birth without any marriage, so be it. If you laugh at them, you are enticing them to do a bigger sin such as buang anak or abortion.
Other reason which I could think of is financial problem. Parents might be too poor to sustain the life of their baby. Therefore I support the government’s move to allow parents to put their baby in those shelters. I am sure someone will be willing to adopt them or even if they are not adopted, these babies could contribute or payback their debts to the shelter by working and support the shelter which they grew up in. Of course parent’s details should be confidential to avoid future problems
The best way is always be responsible. Every action will have a chain of reactions. Anyway I do not have any authority to comment on the topic. I just felt that its wrong to do so and so just wanna blog about it. Please do not feel offended about what I say. Just some comment.
Have you every wondered why people are willing to conduct such inhumane task such as killing their baby or just let them rot by the streets. These babies are innocent and they have done nothing wrong to deserve such inhumane acts.
As a father, I seriously feel that they are losing the chance of seeing their baby grow. Surely there are times when you feel that they are a nuisance but there are also times where you are glad to have them.
Anyway I had been thinking what are the reasons that caused these parents to do so? Culture? Social pressure? Money? Well you should think of the side effects when you do not conduct safe sex. Regardless what the reasons are, throwing your babies are always not an option.
I am not only against buang anak. I am also against abortion. I knew that recently Malaysia had developed some sites to allow parents to pass their babies to safe hands. Though you might never see your baby again but at least you can ensure that they will be given a second chance to live regardless of what kind of life they might have. This option is always better than losing the chance at all.
I am happy having my baby to disturb my sleep and having my baby to stop me from smoking. Although its irritating but if you think back its kind of sweet when she suddenly run to your shoulders and hug you. When I am down, she sits patiently next to me and patting my head as if I am the baby and she is my mother.
If I had threw her away, I would never have such experience. Now even the thought of losing her hurts me so much that I would shed a tear.
One thing for sure is there had been increase in regards to buang anak cases and abortion cases. Will harsh sentence in terms of law help the decrease? I don’t think so. Just take a look at our drug trafficking sentence which is many times harsher and scarier but yet it still happens.
We need to find the root cause for the problem. From my opinion, it may be due to social pressure which caused it. These parents do not want to be the laughing stock of the public where some auntie on the streets will look at them and pointing their fingers to them and say all kinds of words.
Another cause of the problem might also be due to religion. I had been observing some people who laugh at people who skipped fasting during the fasting months. You see I don’t see the problem of the person who skipped fasting because he/she is working in an environment which hinders him/her from fasting. Example labourer, chef or iron casting industry. If they do not eat, they will die… seriously. By the way, what happens if they don’t fast? If the person don’t feel like fasting, the sin will be on them not you. Why bother and laugh at people? My point is, if someone decided to give birth without any marriage, so be it. If you laugh at them, you are enticing them to do a bigger sin such as buang anak or abortion.
Other reason which I could think of is financial problem. Parents might be too poor to sustain the life of their baby. Therefore I support the government’s move to allow parents to put their baby in those shelters. I am sure someone will be willing to adopt them or even if they are not adopted, these babies could contribute or payback their debts to the shelter by working and support the shelter which they grew up in. Of course parent’s details should be confidential to avoid future problems
The best way is always be responsible. Every action will have a chain of reactions. Anyway I do not have any authority to comment on the topic. I just felt that its wrong to do so and so just wanna blog about it. Please do not feel offended about what I say. Just some comment.
Personality test result: ENFP
I had recently took a test online in regards to my personality. Personalities will often change and so I thought its time to take this test again. In the past I often take DISC (PPA) to see who am i. Today I took The Keirsey Personality Zone. Below is a description of my personality. The test shows that I am Idealist, Champion category.
Like the other Idealists, Champions are rather rare, say two or three percent of the population, but even more than the others they consider intense emotional experiences as being vital to a full life. Champions have a wide range and variety of emotions, and a great passion for novelty. They see life as an exciting drama, pregnant with possibilities for both good and evil, and they want to experience all the meaningful events and fascinating people in the world. The most outgoing of the Idealists, Champions often can't wait to tell others of their extraordinary experiences. Champions can be tireless in talking with others, like fountains that bubble and splash, spilling over their own words to get it all out. And usually this is not simple storytelling; Champions often speak (or write) in the hope of revealing some truth about human experience, or of motivating others with their powerful convictions. Their strong drive to speak out on issues and events, along with their boundless enthusiasm and natural talent with language, makes them the most vivacious and inspiring of all the types.
Fiercely individualistic, Champions strive toward a kind of personal authenticity, and this intention always to be themselves is usually quite attractive to others. At the same time, Champions have outstanding intuitive powers and can tell what is going on inside of others, reading hidden emotions and giving special significance to words or actions. In fact, Champions are constantly scanning the social environment, and no intriguing character or silent motive is likely to escape their attention. Far more than the other Idealists, Champions are keen and probing observers of the people around them, and are capable of intense concentration on another individual. Their attention is rarely passive or casual. On the contrary, Champions tend to be extra sensitive and alert, always ready for emergencies, always on the lookout for what's possible.
Champions are good with people and usually have a wide range of personal relationships. They are warm and full of energy with their friends. They are likable and at ease with colleagues, and handle their employees or students with great skill. They are good in public and on the telephone, and are so spontaneous and dramatic that others love to be in their company. Champions are positive, exuberant people, and often their confidence in the goodness of life and of human nature makes good things happen.
Joan Baez, Phil Donahue, Paul Robeson, Bill Moyer, Elizibeth Cady Stanton, Joeseph Campbell, Edith Wharton, Sargent Shriver, Charles Dickens, and Upton Sinclair are examples of Idealist Champions
Test webpage: http://www.keirsey.com/
Like the other Idealists, Champions are rather rare, say two or three percent of the population, but even more than the others they consider intense emotional experiences as being vital to a full life. Champions have a wide range and variety of emotions, and a great passion for novelty. They see life as an exciting drama, pregnant with possibilities for both good and evil, and they want to experience all the meaningful events and fascinating people in the world. The most outgoing of the Idealists, Champions often can't wait to tell others of their extraordinary experiences. Champions can be tireless in talking with others, like fountains that bubble and splash, spilling over their own words to get it all out. And usually this is not simple storytelling; Champions often speak (or write) in the hope of revealing some truth about human experience, or of motivating others with their powerful convictions. Their strong drive to speak out on issues and events, along with their boundless enthusiasm and natural talent with language, makes them the most vivacious and inspiring of all the types.
Fiercely individualistic, Champions strive toward a kind of personal authenticity, and this intention always to be themselves is usually quite attractive to others. At the same time, Champions have outstanding intuitive powers and can tell what is going on inside of others, reading hidden emotions and giving special significance to words or actions. In fact, Champions are constantly scanning the social environment, and no intriguing character or silent motive is likely to escape their attention. Far more than the other Idealists, Champions are keen and probing observers of the people around them, and are capable of intense concentration on another individual. Their attention is rarely passive or casual. On the contrary, Champions tend to be extra sensitive and alert, always ready for emergencies, always on the lookout for what's possible.
Champions are good with people and usually have a wide range of personal relationships. They are warm and full of energy with their friends. They are likable and at ease with colleagues, and handle their employees or students with great skill. They are good in public and on the telephone, and are so spontaneous and dramatic that others love to be in their company. Champions are positive, exuberant people, and often their confidence in the goodness of life and of human nature makes good things happen.
Joan Baez, Phil Donahue, Paul Robeson, Bill Moyer, Elizibeth Cady Stanton, Joeseph Campbell, Edith Wharton, Sargent Shriver, Charles Dickens, and Upton Sinclair are examples of Idealist Champions
Test webpage: http://www.keirsey.com/
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Peacefully alone… Thinking about life
Like many would think, being left alone is a bad thing. For me, I am enjoying it. Its been 5 years since I last being left alone to do my own things. Today I am glad that it is my turn to have such opportunity.
I came to work and had lots of time to stay put and do nothing. Though some people will come and meet me from time to time but I am not needed in any meetings. I do not require to handle projects and I don’t use much brain power.
All I have to do now is to settle whatever tasks which is incomplete. I am also required to handover my uncompleted businesses to my fellow colleagues… (poor people). Lol
It is a good day. I woke up nicely this morning and feel glad I am still alive… Despite the fact my daughter woke me up 4 times for milk yesterday. Even though I woke up late, I did not rush to work and the traffic was not congested at all. I arrive 2 minutes late. I also have a nice good morning kiss from my wife and daughter…
When I left home, my daughter said bye bye to me. When I reached office few colleagues said good morning to me and until not anyone bothered me for big problems. It is a great day.
After years of struggling, I finally found peace at workplace. Maybe because there are no new tasks that would upset my plans. I am really getting old fast. I honestly feel like an old man looking for peace at mind.
I had been wondering what will be waiting for me at the new company? Like their industrial name describes Fast Moving Consumer Goods I am sure this organization will surely work at high pace and will not have any time to think and look for peace. Anyway, the pay is good and if I am busy, my wife & daughter could have a better life. Its is definitely worth it.
I had realized few of my wife’s dreams but I know I will not realize more than this if I continued getting the petty salary I am getting. If this risk or big hop means more joy, more happiness for my family I don’t care if it brings me more stress.
People loves to say, money is not everything but without money you cant do anything. Money cant buy happiness I know, but without money you cant buy anything but suffering. My wife and I don’t wish for a very wealthy life but to a minimum we must have the capability to enjoy life such as traveling. If I spend every penny I earn everyday, we will never have such life.
I hope I can allow my wife to retire early and live life as a housewife. I hope she can enjoy her life and stressless. I can bear all her burden. Better 1 man sorrow than 1 family sorrow. I cant pluck the moon from the sky for her but at least I could put the reflection of the moon on her palm. Hope it will be as good as having the moon on her hand.
Looking forward to be home with her tonight. I am also looking forward for a nice dinner at Fairies Café with my boys Au Yeong & Nic. They have been very supportive subordinates and very good friends of mine.
Just like how Jason & Adrian treated me as a child, I take them like my child. To goorm them for better future just like Jason & Adrian did. Not to mention Joanne, Frances, Sally and other leaders who had once lead me before
I came to work and had lots of time to stay put and do nothing. Though some people will come and meet me from time to time but I am not needed in any meetings. I do not require to handle projects and I don’t use much brain power.
All I have to do now is to settle whatever tasks which is incomplete. I am also required to handover my uncompleted businesses to my fellow colleagues… (poor people). Lol
It is a good day. I woke up nicely this morning and feel glad I am still alive… Despite the fact my daughter woke me up 4 times for milk yesterday. Even though I woke up late, I did not rush to work and the traffic was not congested at all. I arrive 2 minutes late. I also have a nice good morning kiss from my wife and daughter…
When I left home, my daughter said bye bye to me. When I reached office few colleagues said good morning to me and until not anyone bothered me for big problems. It is a great day.
After years of struggling, I finally found peace at workplace. Maybe because there are no new tasks that would upset my plans. I am really getting old fast. I honestly feel like an old man looking for peace at mind.
I had been wondering what will be waiting for me at the new company? Like their industrial name describes Fast Moving Consumer Goods I am sure this organization will surely work at high pace and will not have any time to think and look for peace. Anyway, the pay is good and if I am busy, my wife & daughter could have a better life. Its is definitely worth it.
I had realized few of my wife’s dreams but I know I will not realize more than this if I continued getting the petty salary I am getting. If this risk or big hop means more joy, more happiness for my family I don’t care if it brings me more stress.
People loves to say, money is not everything but without money you cant do anything. Money cant buy happiness I know, but without money you cant buy anything but suffering. My wife and I don’t wish for a very wealthy life but to a minimum we must have the capability to enjoy life such as traveling. If I spend every penny I earn everyday, we will never have such life.
I hope I can allow my wife to retire early and live life as a housewife. I hope she can enjoy her life and stressless. I can bear all her burden. Better 1 man sorrow than 1 family sorrow. I cant pluck the moon from the sky for her but at least I could put the reflection of the moon on her palm. Hope it will be as good as having the moon on her hand.
Looking forward to be home with her tonight. I am also looking forward for a nice dinner at Fairies Café with my boys Au Yeong & Nic. They have been very supportive subordinates and very good friends of mine.
Just like how Jason & Adrian treated me as a child, I take them like my child. To goorm them for better future just like Jason & Adrian did. Not to mention Joanne, Frances, Sally and other leaders who had once lead me before
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A new Chapter…
Not long later a new chapter of my life shall begin. I know I will start this story with fear and anxiousness but I must face it strong. Changes are always scary but if there are no changes, the world will never be better. Like Einstein once said, “if you do the same thing in the same way and the same procedure, don’t expect different result”.
Now for those who dare to dream are the crafters of the world tomorrow. It was thanks to those dreamers in the past that today we are able to fly. Now my contribution for the world may be small but if everyone contributes a little, it will eventually become a big thing.
Now, I had shared this story to some of my past superiors and they all gave me some advice. Maybe they will always treat me like a child. Like a father taking good care of their child. Regardless how old the child grown, they will always be the father’s child. Good friends like them are hard to come by. They always offer knowledge and advice to me like a father will.
Past superiors are the crafters of who I am today. My gratitude to them will never end. In return, I would like to be a father to someone else too. With that in mind, I will always treat my Executives as my child. Its time for me to craft others like how my superiors crafted me in the past.
Its time now, for my turn to take risks. Joining this new company I truly a challenge for me. I do not have the skills and knowledge in this new environment. I hope I could cope with the change and I am sure my wife & daughter have their fingers crossed and hope for the best for me. I must never let them down.
This is another step for me to take to lead a better life for my family. Regardless of what might happen, let it happen to me and not my family. Now I am closer to my target. I had set for myself to be at manager level at age of 27 since college. Now I am 27 but still at Asst. Manager level (a little out of my target). Next month I will achieve my target. Now I need a higher target than this for my next conquest.
I need to seriously think about my target for the future. What must I achieve when I am 35? What must I accomplish by the age of 40? I don’t know what I want now but I will think about it. At the mean time, just focus on climbing and be greedy
Now for those who dare to dream are the crafters of the world tomorrow. It was thanks to those dreamers in the past that today we are able to fly. Now my contribution for the world may be small but if everyone contributes a little, it will eventually become a big thing.
Now, I had shared this story to some of my past superiors and they all gave me some advice. Maybe they will always treat me like a child. Like a father taking good care of their child. Regardless how old the child grown, they will always be the father’s child. Good friends like them are hard to come by. They always offer knowledge and advice to me like a father will.
Past superiors are the crafters of who I am today. My gratitude to them will never end. In return, I would like to be a father to someone else too. With that in mind, I will always treat my Executives as my child. Its time for me to craft others like how my superiors crafted me in the past.
Its time now, for my turn to take risks. Joining this new company I truly a challenge for me. I do not have the skills and knowledge in this new environment. I hope I could cope with the change and I am sure my wife & daughter have their fingers crossed and hope for the best for me. I must never let them down.
This is another step for me to take to lead a better life for my family. Regardless of what might happen, let it happen to me and not my family. Now I am closer to my target. I had set for myself to be at manager level at age of 27 since college. Now I am 27 but still at Asst. Manager level (a little out of my target). Next month I will achieve my target. Now I need a higher target than this for my next conquest.
I need to seriously think about my target for the future. What must I achieve when I am 35? What must I accomplish by the age of 40? I don’t know what I want now but I will think about it. At the mean time, just focus on climbing and be greedy
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Warehouse Sale?!? Die
Make it simple...
My company organized warehouse sale... All employees to attend!
Most employees will be there 4 days straight... i am one of them!
Now its already Day 3... My legs are not mine...
Anyway had something motivated me... wanna know? not now... share later
My company organized warehouse sale... All employees to attend!
Most employees will be there 4 days straight... i am one of them!
Now its already Day 3... My legs are not mine...
Anyway had something motivated me... wanna know? not now... share later
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Kenny
RM 7 Karaoke! Sing for 7 hours! Can you believe it?
During my trip back to my wife’s hometown, My in laws decided to go for a karaoke session in Kuching. What surprised me is the price for karaoke”ing”. With just RM 7 you can sing for 7 whole hours!
There is no catch! All you have to do is buy a drink and you can sing for 7 hours. Whats worse, its on weekend (Saturday). Time allocated = 12pm – 7pm.
Anyway there are some drawbacks in the karaoke. There is no food served. Even if u have the money to pay, you still cant buy them there. Well since you are there for 7 hours definitely you will get hungry.
Before that, my sister in law already bought packets of junk food. Guess the price… Mr Potato which might cost you RM 3 costs RM 5 each pack. In other words you only get Mr potato for the price of Chicken rice. Not worth it.
There is a sign saying no outside food allowed so I asked the waiters I am hungry and you don’t sell food. What can you do for me? Well they allowed me to bring in food later. I got a chicken rice for my sister in law (guess what its only cost me RM 4.50. RM 0.50 cheaper than Mr Potato). I also bought 2 Loh mai kai RM 2.50 each and 4 siew mai RM0.50 each. All these are definitely better than buying MR Potato in the karaoke
At the end of the session, its only RM 62.00 for the whole session for 6 drinks and one jug of Sprite. For this amount, I could only go Red Box for 2 pax for 3 to 4 hours. I think the next time I get back to my in laws house I will definitely visit this place again. This way I can sing my lungs out and release all the stress.
Anyway its kinda pressure as all my sister in laws could read Chinese. When I sing Chinese songs I feel pressured (because I might sing the wrong words since I memorize them)
As a conclusion, its still worth it. I knew I enjoyed and my daughter also had a great time with all the junks she gets to eat. Since its entertainment session I thought its ok for her to enjoy junks as well. She had been a good girl throughout the whole session. =)
There is no catch! All you have to do is buy a drink and you can sing for 7 hours. Whats worse, its on weekend (Saturday). Time allocated = 12pm – 7pm.
Anyway there are some drawbacks in the karaoke. There is no food served. Even if u have the money to pay, you still cant buy them there. Well since you are there for 7 hours definitely you will get hungry.
Before that, my sister in law already bought packets of junk food. Guess the price… Mr Potato which might cost you RM 3 costs RM 5 each pack. In other words you only get Mr potato for the price of Chicken rice. Not worth it.
There is a sign saying no outside food allowed so I asked the waiters I am hungry and you don’t sell food. What can you do for me? Well they allowed me to bring in food later. I got a chicken rice for my sister in law (guess what its only cost me RM 4.50. RM 0.50 cheaper than Mr Potato). I also bought 2 Loh mai kai RM 2.50 each and 4 siew mai RM0.50 each. All these are definitely better than buying MR Potato in the karaoke
At the end of the session, its only RM 62.00 for the whole session for 6 drinks and one jug of Sprite. For this amount, I could only go Red Box for 2 pax for 3 to 4 hours. I think the next time I get back to my in laws house I will definitely visit this place again. This way I can sing my lungs out and release all the stress.
Anyway its kinda pressure as all my sister in laws could read Chinese. When I sing Chinese songs I feel pressured (because I might sing the wrong words since I memorize them)
As a conclusion, its still worth it. I knew I enjoyed and my daughter also had a great time with all the junks she gets to eat. Since its entertainment session I thought its ok for her to enjoy junks as well. She had been a good girl throughout the whole session. =)
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First day after a week of holiday
Today is the first day I reported to work after a week of holiday. It was great but the side effect is: Eyes are heavy, legs are lazy but the body is energetic, and the brain is processing fast.
Anyway day 1 of work is always scary. I do not know what happen last week. Many things changed since a week ago. All kinds of problems arises and I am afraid to go to work.
The fact is after a week I have close to 200 mails to read, tons of meeting to attend and million of shits to clear. It will be a long day today. Pick up your head and face the challenges that are coming.
Today’s Agenda:
1. Clear Shits
2. Meeting
3. Meeting
4. More meeting
Face the fact! That’s job!
Anyway day 1 of work is always scary. I do not know what happen last week. Many things changed since a week ago. All kinds of problems arises and I am afraid to go to work.
The fact is after a week I have close to 200 mails to read, tons of meeting to attend and million of shits to clear. It will be a long day today. Pick up your head and face the challenges that are coming.
Today’s Agenda:
1. Clear Shits
2. Meeting
3. Meeting
4. More meeting
Face the fact! That’s job!
Toilet training failure
It’s a sad thing to happen when my daughter failed toilet training. Yesterday, I was home earlier than usual and my wife decided to toilet train her yesterday. Therefore, we decided not to let her wear diapers and kept on reminded her that if she needs to pee, tell us.
It was about 7pm when I got home. At about 7.30pm, she peed without letting us know and so we will have to change for her. It was still early to change her to pyjamas and so we continued not to wear diapers for her.
Again we kept remaining her about telling us when she needs to pee. After dinner, we let her play for a little longer and at about 8.30, we saw some liquid coming out from her. Yup, she peed without warning again. This time it came with a big bad odor and as my wife checked, its certified! The pee pee came along with a poo poo.
My wife wanted me to wash for her but due to laziness, I declined. As she carried my daughter to the toilet I heard a sound “PHIAK” and there it is stuck on the floor. A big bad chocolate ice cream. I cant stop myself from shouting at my wife “Hello, how you carry her? See what’s on the floor!”
What happens next? Guess who will have to clean up the mess? Seriously I felt that my wife is taking revenge for my laziness. (But actually I know it’s an accident). Anyway my wife and I can’t stop laughing about it. As I was writing this blog, I can’t stop smiling as I think about the chocolate ice cream.
Anyway the morale of the story is… GUYS don’t be lazy. Instead of cleaning my daughter’s butt, I have to pick up the ice cream with nothing but a piece of tissue in between. And also mop the floor. Funny how things go.
More toilet training? Well I think I will pass that. Let her wear diapers all the time until she is shy enough to remove it. (I talk the talk but I think I will still toilet train her)
It was about 7pm when I got home. At about 7.30pm, she peed without letting us know and so we will have to change for her. It was still early to change her to pyjamas and so we continued not to wear diapers for her.
Again we kept remaining her about telling us when she needs to pee. After dinner, we let her play for a little longer and at about 8.30, we saw some liquid coming out from her. Yup, she peed without warning again. This time it came with a big bad odor and as my wife checked, its certified! The pee pee came along with a poo poo.
My wife wanted me to wash for her but due to laziness, I declined. As she carried my daughter to the toilet I heard a sound “PHIAK” and there it is stuck on the floor. A big bad chocolate ice cream. I cant stop myself from shouting at my wife “Hello, how you carry her? See what’s on the floor!”
What happens next? Guess who will have to clean up the mess? Seriously I felt that my wife is taking revenge for my laziness. (But actually I know it’s an accident). Anyway my wife and I can’t stop laughing about it. As I was writing this blog, I can’t stop smiling as I think about the chocolate ice cream.
Anyway the morale of the story is… GUYS don’t be lazy. Instead of cleaning my daughter’s butt, I have to pick up the ice cream with nothing but a piece of tissue in between. And also mop the floor. Funny how things go.
More toilet training? Well I think I will pass that. Let her wear diapers all the time until she is shy enough to remove it. (I talk the talk but I think I will still toilet train her)
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Kenny
All about condoms
For a start, some people had been asking me where is the Durex advert that I had been saying? Well, its not always there. The advert sometime there and sometimes not, just like Chipsmore.
Anyway back to my topic, I’ve checked wikipedia regarding condoms and to my surprise, it’s a whole lot of information. Who would have guessed that condoms could be used in many ways and so much history in it.
Lets start with some background of the subject. Condoms have histories dated back over 4 centuries ago. The most basic use of it is for pregnancy prevention and also to avoid STD (sexually transmitted disease). Well until here most of us might have knew about it. Its waterproof, durable and elastic. I am sure you knew it too.
The most common material used is latex but some are made from polyurethane, polyisoprene, or lamb intestine. Some history check also shows that in the ancient days, the Chinese used oiled silk paper as condom (glans: a device only covers the top of the penis) or lamb intestine. (Yucks, imagine your sex partner is also doing it with a lamb intestine). In japan, tortoise shell and animal horn is also used. (I could not imagine whether your partner is having sex with you or the animal horn and shell. They are so hard and you might not feel anything.)
Despite the benefit of birth control and avoiding STD, some religion were against the use of condoms. They believe that its immoral to use them. Some also believes that its good to have STD around because it’s the karma for random sex.
Over the years, condoms had been improved in many ways. Today, condoms are more reliable, and also thinner (you can feel more now!)
In March 2003, Switzerland announced that they will produce smaller condoms called “hotshot” specially made for boys aged 12 – 14 years old. (huh, sex at 12? Lucky boys)
Types of Condom:
1) Latex (rubber)
- Most common
- Elastic
- ISO (ISO 4074 Natural latex rubber condoms)
- Used with lubricants ; reduces rubber elasticity
- With Vytex (to remove 90% of proteins responsible for allergy reactions)
2) Synthetic (non-rubber man made)
- Commonly made from polyurethane.
- Other materials: AT-10 resin, polyisoprene
- Better than latex due to better heat conduct, less sensitive with temperature, longer shelf-life, less allergenic, does
not have odor, no protein
- Cons compared to latex: less elastic (more likely to slip & break), more expensive
3) Lambskin
- Good: more sensation
- Bad: Pores on the material allows STD to happen, less allergenic compared to latex, expensive, pores large enough to allow sperm to pass through
4) Spermicidal
- Added with spermicidal, nonoxynol-9
- Study shows that condoms lubricated with spermicidal has no additional benefit in birth control
- Have shorter shelf life
- May cause urinary-tract infections in women
- With frequent use of Nonoxynol-9 increases the risk of HIV transmission
- May have stopped production
5) Textured
- Made to increase sexual pleasure
- Targeted on G-spot & frenulum
- Studded condoms should be avoided because some women experience irritation during intercourse
There are also female condoms in the market where the condom is worn by women. Well I had never seen one before in the market. So its difficult to imagine how to use them
Other uses:
1) Infertility treatment
a. A procedure to encourage child birth for those who may have problem
b. To reduce women’s natural anti-sperm antibodies
c. However no proven clinical test that it could improve pregnancy rate
2) non-lubricated condom over the muzzle of the rifle barrel in order to prevent barrel fouling by keeping out detritus
3) Covering virginal ultrasound probe with a condom reduces the amount of blood and vaginal fluids that the technician must
clean off between patients
4) Hold water during emergency situation
5) Smuggle drugs and cocaine to place the drug in the rectum.
6) Cover microphone to make underwater recording
7) Condoms are used by engineers to keep soil samples dry during soil tests
8) Condoms are used as a one-way valve by paramedics when performing a chest decompression in the field. The decompression
needle is inserted through the condom, and inserted into the chest. The condom folds over the hub allowing air to exit
the chest, but preventing it from entering
Now, the biggest problem now it’s the disposal. If you flush it, it clogs your toilet. If you throw it at the garbage disposal, the rodents will eat it as food. You throw into the sea, it will pollute the environment. What is the best way to dispose it? If you have any idea, feel free to write down some comments.
According to wikipedia, there is also some high-tech condoms in research but still yet to be introduced to the market. Things like spray on condoms or invisible condoms still have some problems to overcome. Well just see whatever future condoms might be.
Anyway back to my topic, I’ve checked wikipedia regarding condoms and to my surprise, it’s a whole lot of information. Who would have guessed that condoms could be used in many ways and so much history in it.
Lets start with some background of the subject. Condoms have histories dated back over 4 centuries ago. The most basic use of it is for pregnancy prevention and also to avoid STD (sexually transmitted disease). Well until here most of us might have knew about it. Its waterproof, durable and elastic. I am sure you knew it too.
The most common material used is latex but some are made from polyurethane, polyisoprene, or lamb intestine. Some history check also shows that in the ancient days, the Chinese used oiled silk paper as condom (glans: a device only covers the top of the penis) or lamb intestine. (Yucks, imagine your sex partner is also doing it with a lamb intestine). In japan, tortoise shell and animal horn is also used. (I could not imagine whether your partner is having sex with you or the animal horn and shell. They are so hard and you might not feel anything.)
Despite the benefit of birth control and avoiding STD, some religion were against the use of condoms. They believe that its immoral to use them. Some also believes that its good to have STD around because it’s the karma for random sex.
Over the years, condoms had been improved in many ways. Today, condoms are more reliable, and also thinner (you can feel more now!)
In March 2003, Switzerland announced that they will produce smaller condoms called “hotshot” specially made for boys aged 12 – 14 years old. (huh, sex at 12? Lucky boys)
Types of Condom:
1) Latex (rubber)
- Most common
- Elastic
- ISO (ISO 4074 Natural latex rubber condoms)
- Used with lubricants ; reduces rubber elasticity
- With Vytex (to remove 90% of proteins responsible for allergy reactions)
2) Synthetic (non-rubber man made)
- Commonly made from polyurethane.
- Other materials: AT-10 resin, polyisoprene
- Better than latex due to better heat conduct, less sensitive with temperature, longer shelf-life, less allergenic, does
not have odor, no protein
- Cons compared to latex: less elastic (more likely to slip & break), more expensive
3) Lambskin
- Good: more sensation
- Bad: Pores on the material allows STD to happen, less allergenic compared to latex, expensive, pores large enough to allow sperm to pass through
4) Spermicidal
- Added with spermicidal, nonoxynol-9
- Study shows that condoms lubricated with spermicidal has no additional benefit in birth control
- Have shorter shelf life
- May cause urinary-tract infections in women
- With frequent use of Nonoxynol-9 increases the risk of HIV transmission
- May have stopped production
5) Textured
- Made to increase sexual pleasure
- Targeted on G-spot & frenulum
- Studded condoms should be avoided because some women experience irritation during intercourse
There are also female condoms in the market where the condom is worn by women. Well I had never seen one before in the market. So its difficult to imagine how to use them
Other uses:
1) Infertility treatment
a. A procedure to encourage child birth for those who may have problem
b. To reduce women’s natural anti-sperm antibodies
c. However no proven clinical test that it could improve pregnancy rate
2) non-lubricated condom over the muzzle of the rifle barrel in order to prevent barrel fouling by keeping out detritus
3) Covering virginal ultrasound probe with a condom reduces the amount of blood and vaginal fluids that the technician must
clean off between patients
4) Hold water during emergency situation
5) Smuggle drugs and cocaine to place the drug in the rectum.
6) Cover microphone to make underwater recording
7) Condoms are used by engineers to keep soil samples dry during soil tests
8) Condoms are used as a one-way valve by paramedics when performing a chest decompression in the field. The decompression
needle is inserted through the condom, and inserted into the chest. The condom folds over the hub allowing air to exit
the chest, but preventing it from entering
Now, the biggest problem now it’s the disposal. If you flush it, it clogs your toilet. If you throw it at the garbage disposal, the rodents will eat it as food. You throw into the sea, it will pollute the environment. What is the best way to dispose it? If you have any idea, feel free to write down some comments.
According to wikipedia, there is also some high-tech condoms in research but still yet to be introduced to the market. Things like spray on condoms or invisible condoms still have some problems to overcome. Well just see whatever future condoms might be.
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Long chat with my friends. 7 hours of chatting?!?! That’s crazy
On 26th June 2010, Me, my wife & daughter went to visit a very close friend at his house in Bkt Jelutong. We went along with Ewan and his fiancé. All the three of us, Me, Ewan & the host Chiew Long, had recently bought a house and coincidently all of us bought houses developed by Sime Darby.
Chiew Long bought it first, then Ewan and lastly me. We spent about 7 hours talking about anything and I think it’s a very great thing. At first I was afraid that my wife would be bored but somehow she have a great chit chat session with their wifes too.
Anyway, we have a lot of discussion about everything my wife and I got many valuable experiences and opinions about home improvement. All these ideas are useful for us to develop our future home.
Since then, I had never stop thinking about my house. Yes at times I may have some small argument with my wife when we have some conflicting ideas about how the house shall look like but we can always compromise.
My daughter also found a friend! Chiew Long’s son. Hahahaha. Anyway I enjoyed the night although we basically did nothing except chatting. Its been a long time since I met up with them. If my memories are right, its been at least 1 year since we met.
As I am writing this blog, it also brings memories about how I helped Chiew Long to fetch his wife home when he married and also how Chiew Long helped me to drink all the alcohol when I married.
Now… Both me and Chiew Long are looking forward to Ewan’s marriage. LOL we even pressured Ewan to make babies. MAN we are like Ewan’s mom forcing him to leave his seeds at early age. Funny how things turn out but it was hell of a time.
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Life without helpers
Its been a very long week last week since both my Executives are away for business trip. Now I will have to do all those work all by myself since last week until next week. Next week one of them will be back. I hope things will get smoother then.
Currently I am doing 3 man’s job. Mine, and the other 2 executives. Life is tough. I am tired both mentally and physically. I am so looking forward to the coming week.
Anyway, though it’s a busy week, it’s also a fast week. Time flies when u are busy. That’s something that I could confirm. It had been unfair for my wife & daughter because I basically spend less time with them.
I even have to work on Saturday and therefore, the weekly cleaning had been done my my wife alone. She did a very good job on it this week and my room is squeakily clean. My part? Well I did it yesterday (Sunday). That is the least I could do for them.
Hey at least I cleaned the toilet. My wife wanted to do it as well but I told her I will do it. Although 2 days late but I still did it. My wife have sensitive skin so its better that I do it so she wont come complaining that her hand hurts. Heheheh.
I am still busy this week but I think I can spare this 10 minutes writing this blog
Currently I am doing 3 man’s job. Mine, and the other 2 executives. Life is tough. I am tired both mentally and physically. I am so looking forward to the coming week.
Anyway, though it’s a busy week, it’s also a fast week. Time flies when u are busy. That’s something that I could confirm. It had been unfair for my wife & daughter because I basically spend less time with them.
I even have to work on Saturday and therefore, the weekly cleaning had been done my my wife alone. She did a very good job on it this week and my room is squeakily clean. My part? Well I did it yesterday (Sunday). That is the least I could do for them.
Hey at least I cleaned the toilet. My wife wanted to do it as well but I told her I will do it. Although 2 days late but I still did it. My wife have sensitive skin so its better that I do it so she wont come complaining that her hand hurts. Heheheh.
I am still busy this week but I think I can spare this 10 minutes writing this blog
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Woo..hoo..!! Durex advertising on my blog? That’s Great
Ladies and gentlemen… I am pleased to announce that durex is going to advertise their campaign at my site. Please do support them! I am actually glad that they came…why? Hahaha because I think its something funny and nice but at the same time suprising! Hahahaha…
Anyway I got a mail from nuffnang that they will be advertising the advert at my blogspot and asked if I am against it. Well, for sure I will welcome it since they look up to my blog… I am not the choosy type. Even if they wanna advertise porn sites, I don’t mind too. Since its married man’s moments, it’s for those mens! Hahahaha… Masturbating at home is always better than seeking carnal pleasures at nasty places which can catch unwanted disease.
I always support safe sex like Durex and against prostitution and so pornsites could always be an alternative which is many times safer than prostitution to overcome men’s lust… hahahaha… maybe I should search some info about condoms just to give back something to Durex… heheheh… Wait for my post let be conduct some fact-finding about condoms and blog about it
Public speaking in Sunway Pyramid
It is Sunday, 28th June 2010. Kenny Lee (Which means me) were required to conduct a public speaking at EXPO kesedaran Franchise. It was a surprise to me because my company got to know that we were required to perform something at the Expo only about 1.5 week in advance.
Immediately, a team of employees were put into a room to brainstorm about the sketch and 2 dudes were selected by the bosses to conduct a quiz as performance. Our objective was a very difficult one. To conduct a performance which could pull people’s attention, make people understand our franchise program and do not involve much cost.
WOW! It was a miracle that we manage to go through the talk. My pal and I only rehearsed not more than 1 hour and we have to be on stage for 30 minutes.
It was kind of scary at first because when it was about our turn, there were no more than 10 audiences. The question is… WHAT CAN I DO TO PULL THE CROWD! The moment truth is here. The Emcee announced our company name. I was the first to go in. From the stage I could see no more than 10 pax looking up to me.
In order to make this a success I need more audiences. I am now totally lacking of attention and so I shouted to everyone in the mall. “For you guys who could hear my voice but could no see me, come over to the concourse area and I shall give you some prize”. With that, more people came and I am now more at ease.
I was some great time talking and playing up on the stage though I thought I look like an idiot. Hahaha. My manager commented that it was a great show and I really hope its true because I do not want look like an idiot.
NOW, I have some new thing to add to my experience. Talk show at public locations. Maybe I should venture to the entertainment industry. Lol. But anyway, I really think I did a good job because at the end of the talk, we have close to 50 people looking towards the stage. From the top I could see everyone’s eyesight was towards me. Besides that I also manage to ask a family from the 2nd floor to join the game. It was fun
Anyway, It was also a tiring day yesterday. It’s a good thing that when I got home at about 9pm, both my wife and daughter were not asleep. Since they are awake, I got to play and chat with them. It’s something like an energy recharge for me. I am glad I have them by my side.
Immediately, a team of employees were put into a room to brainstorm about the sketch and 2 dudes were selected by the bosses to conduct a quiz as performance. Our objective was a very difficult one. To conduct a performance which could pull people’s attention, make people understand our franchise program and do not involve much cost.
WOW! It was a miracle that we manage to go through the talk. My pal and I only rehearsed not more than 1 hour and we have to be on stage for 30 minutes.
It was kind of scary at first because when it was about our turn, there were no more than 10 audiences. The question is… WHAT CAN I DO TO PULL THE CROWD! The moment truth is here. The Emcee announced our company name. I was the first to go in. From the stage I could see no more than 10 pax looking up to me.
In order to make this a success I need more audiences. I am now totally lacking of attention and so I shouted to everyone in the mall. “For you guys who could hear my voice but could no see me, come over to the concourse area and I shall give you some prize”. With that, more people came and I am now more at ease.
I was some great time talking and playing up on the stage though I thought I look like an idiot. Hahaha. My manager commented that it was a great show and I really hope its true because I do not want look like an idiot.
NOW, I have some new thing to add to my experience. Talk show at public locations. Maybe I should venture to the entertainment industry. Lol. But anyway, I really think I did a good job because at the end of the talk, we have close to 50 people looking towards the stage. From the top I could see everyone’s eyesight was towards me. Besides that I also manage to ask a family from the 2nd floor to join the game. It was fun
Anyway, It was also a tiring day yesterday. It’s a good thing that when I got home at about 9pm, both my wife and daughter were not asleep. Since they are awake, I got to play and chat with them. It’s something like an energy recharge for me. I am glad I have them by my side.
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Friday Night Movies: Karate Kid
Me, My wife & my daughter went for movies yesterday night (Friday night) for the movie karate kid. To our suprise, there are only so many people there when we got there. Honestly its suprisingly quiet.
Now that is the power of world cup. You will realize that most of those there are female. which in other words all the guys are stuck in some dude's home drinking beer and shouting their lungs out when the players get close of the goal. I am never a fan of football so i do not know what football fever is all about.
So while we were there, i bought popcorns and drinks while waiting for the movie to start. Even before i enter the cinema, i finish up my popcorns and drinks... hahahah it was meant to be taken during the movies.lol
So the movie started and the three of us got in. Next to me, seated 2 couples and seriously they are ANNOYING!!!. the bxxches could never shut up. she kept on talking and talking. Even a two year old know how to shut up during movies but it seems like my daughter is more matured than them
BEing a nice guy i did not Fxxk them up. Imagine my wife could hear them talking a few seats away from them.
Anyway this karate kid is an amazing movie. Its worth every penny spent. It could be better if the couples seated next to me knows how to shut up.
Now that is the power of world cup. You will realize that most of those there are female. which in other words all the guys are stuck in some dude's home drinking beer and shouting their lungs out when the players get close of the goal. I am never a fan of football so i do not know what football fever is all about.
So while we were there, i bought popcorns and drinks while waiting for the movie to start. Even before i enter the cinema, i finish up my popcorns and drinks... hahahah it was meant to be taken during the movies.lol
So the movie started and the three of us got in. Next to me, seated 2 couples and seriously they are ANNOYING!!!. the bxxches could never shut up. she kept on talking and talking. Even a two year old know how to shut up during movies but it seems like my daughter is more matured than them
BEing a nice guy i did not Fxxk them up. Imagine my wife could hear them talking a few seats away from them.
Anyway this karate kid is an amazing movie. Its worth every penny spent. It could be better if the couples seated next to me knows how to shut up.
How my new home shall be: Paloma Bandar Bukit Raja
As mentioned in previous blog, i will be purchasing a house soon. Lets hope i will get the load i need approved and be able to realize another one of my wife's dreams.
It is developed my Sime Darby and from what i see, it will be a nice place to live in. Near to the house i purchased, there is a man made loke which i think will be a place for me and my family to take a leisure walk.
My house plan is type A1 which will look like the plan below. it has 3+1 bedrooms and its 24x75 which i think is able to sustain a family ofr maximum 4. (Now 3 family members)
I would also like to attach an artist's impression of how my house will look like just to make you drool with sliver
When we were there to make a booking, the number of people waiting to purchase the house was scary. The show room was so filled that i have a hard time walking. Anyway when me and my wife went to see, we dont really have the intention to purchase.
But the more we see it, the higher the impulse he have to purchase. Hopefully we are not purchasing it impulsively. Till date i have not regretted my actions.
NOW GUYS! an advise for all the future married man... Remember to save up some money! without it you would not be able to buy one when the time comes. you will regret not saving enough just like i do. Now my wife & daughter will have to suffer with me. We wont have lots of spare money for entertainment. The lucky thing is my wife dont mind to suffer along with me. Thanks Chloe... Sorry Chermaine!
Best approach to use credit card
During my conversation with my boss today, he also shared how rich people use the loop holes in credit card to delay the payment. According to him, they have at least 2 credit card in use and this is how they use it.
The users will have 2 credit card. For example, 1 credit card statement cut off at the beginning of the month, the other at the end of the month. Next, each card is marked with their statement date; for example, card 1 = 5th of the month, while the other 20th of the month.
Now they will use the card which has a different cut off date. If today is 10th, they will use card 1 to do any purchase. If its 2nd, they will use card 2. this way they could prolong the delay and avoid being charged the interest. These approach allows them to have approximately 50 day to do the payment without penalty.
How do they get 30 days? 30 days for card usage, 20 days for payment. This approach helps hardcore card users to prolong their credit and maximize usage. It will take great discipline to control usage so that users do not overspend
Again I would like to emphasize how rich people get richer. As you can see these people despite the fact that they are rich, they are able to find ways to reduce cost of each usage. The moral of the story is, we need to control money usage to increase saving. Just saving is not enough. We need to find how the money flows in every transaction and manipulate their loop holes.
The best approach is never there. It requires your understanding on how things work and using one’s creativity to manipulate the loop holes. Today my interest on money raised dramatically as I saw how bosses use their money. Maybe if I have time, I will try to research how money works and try to find some ways that best suit my way of spending.
Now I know that my spending method is one that could never make me rich. I need to find the best approach for myself. Lets hope I will be able to do it. Maybe I could share here in my blog if works.
The users will have 2 credit card. For example, 1 credit card statement cut off at the beginning of the month, the other at the end of the month. Next, each card is marked with their statement date; for example, card 1 = 5th of the month, while the other 20th of the month.
Now they will use the card which has a different cut off date. If today is 10th, they will use card 1 to do any purchase. If its 2nd, they will use card 2. this way they could prolong the delay and avoid being charged the interest. These approach allows them to have approximately 50 day to do the payment without penalty.
How do they get 30 days? 30 days for card usage, 20 days for payment. This approach helps hardcore card users to prolong their credit and maximize usage. It will take great discipline to control usage so that users do not overspend
Again I would like to emphasize how rich people get richer. As you can see these people despite the fact that they are rich, they are able to find ways to reduce cost of each usage. The moral of the story is, we need to control money usage to increase saving. Just saving is not enough. We need to find how the money flows in every transaction and manipulate their loop holes.
The best approach is never there. It requires your understanding on how things work and using one’s creativity to manipulate the loop holes. Today my interest on money raised dramatically as I saw how bosses use their money. Maybe if I have time, I will try to research how money works and try to find some ways that best suit my way of spending.
Now I know that my spending method is one that could never make me rich. I need to find the best approach for myself. Lets hope I will be able to do it. Maybe I could share here in my blog if works.
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The ABC of Housing loan in Malaysia.
Who would have known that we could actually make money with money? Anyway during cigarette break just now, I asked my boss about home loan since I would be purchasing one. For me, it is better to know more from him because he has many experiences in purchasing property.
He shared with me on home loans and covered the basics. Some basics are BLR-2.1% is considered acceptable and use a mortgage loan. Now for readers who will be buying property for the first time let me explain more in detail about these because I don’t know myself until I asked.
BLR = Government announced interest rate
Therefore, the higher the number the better it is. For example, BLR minus 2.1% = 2010 BLR for Malaysia is about 6%. Therefore your interested is 6-2.1= about 4%. If the bank offer higher BLR minus package, the better it is for purchasers.
Mortgage loan = Put more money, less interest payable amount but could be withdrawn when needed. Committed amount (monthly installments) will be deducted and could not be withdrawn.
My boss shared that the mortgage loan could help to safe money. Take a look at the current fixed deposit percentage in Malaysia is at about 3%. But after deducting the BLR, we actually could save about 1% of interest ( (BLR 6%- 2%) – fixed deposit 3%). So if you have extra money, place it in the loan to reduce the interest rate and save 1%.
Another tip he shared is if you relatives don’t mind to place the money in your loan, you can put more money in the mortgage loan and free yourself from interest. The money could be taken back anytime, so its better than fixed deposit. The interest growth you can pay them at 3% and from there you save 1% interest. Usually bank will earn the 1% now why not you earn it. The problem is every month you have to calculate the 3% interest and pay back to the owner.
Well the conversation enlightens me about how rich people got richer. They think a lot about all the loop holes to make money or reduce paying. With this, I learned that I should understand more about money and brush up my skills at calculations. Well I think that’s what I should do
He shared with me on home loans and covered the basics. Some basics are BLR-2.1% is considered acceptable and use a mortgage loan. Now for readers who will be buying property for the first time let me explain more in detail about these because I don’t know myself until I asked.
BLR = Government announced interest rate
Therefore, the higher the number the better it is. For example, BLR minus 2.1% = 2010 BLR for Malaysia is about 6%. Therefore your interested is 6-2.1= about 4%. If the bank offer higher BLR minus package, the better it is for purchasers.
Mortgage loan = Put more money, less interest payable amount but could be withdrawn when needed. Committed amount (monthly installments) will be deducted and could not be withdrawn.
My boss shared that the mortgage loan could help to safe money. Take a look at the current fixed deposit percentage in Malaysia is at about 3%. But after deducting the BLR, we actually could save about 1% of interest ( (BLR 6%- 2%) – fixed deposit 3%). So if you have extra money, place it in the loan to reduce the interest rate and save 1%.
Another tip he shared is if you relatives don’t mind to place the money in your loan, you can put more money in the mortgage loan and free yourself from interest. The money could be taken back anytime, so its better than fixed deposit. The interest growth you can pay them at 3% and from there you save 1% interest. Usually bank will earn the 1% now why not you earn it. The problem is every month you have to calculate the 3% interest and pay back to the owner.
Well the conversation enlightens me about how rich people got richer. They think a lot about all the loop holes to make money or reduce paying. With this, I learned that I should understand more about money and brush up my skills at calculations. Well I think that’s what I should do
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Thank you Ex-bosses. Thank you for making me who I am today
Throughout my service in my current company, I had a many opportunities to be guided by many different managers. I had recently been promoted to Assistant Manager and now I have subordinates under me. I thought and thought if I am a good manager in the eyes of my subordinate and then somehow it got me thinking how do I define a good boss?
This brought my mind to the past and started to evaluate my bosses again after all these years. After thinking maybe I should list down all the bosses that I worked with before to have a clear picture and not miss anyone. That is why I started blogging (since I have to write out why not blog about it). I will list down their advantage or strength as a manager. The bad things, better don’t publish because afraid I get sued for defamation.
1. Farok, Manager : Very concerned about subordinates & customers
2. Joyce, A. Manager: Work like a mom, taking care of subordinates.
3. Jason, Manager: A man who gets things done and made me better. I truly he play some part in carving me to who I am today. He thought to treat people the way I want to be treated. The thought me how to control my compulsive temper. He showed me what its like for the life above me and he treated me like a son or brother. Even after he left the company, he continued to help me grow. He is like a sifu to me
4. Frances, A.Manager: Iron Lady. Went through a lot together with her. A very practical person and very optimistic. Believes in what we can do and never afraid of doing too much. She too thought many things. She is also a laughing Buddha for the company. Now, she handles other department but still very helpful as usual
5. Chai, G.Manager: No comment.
6. Joanne, S. Manager: Great lady. Very systematic. The fascinating part about her is how she could instill fear in me in a very gentle way. Weird right? She thought me many things and she is also a sifu to me. Strict when is required, gentle when its appropriate. She is one lady many people misunderstood her maybe because the hung a strict face all the time. She is a great teacher in planning. Truly a guru because imagine she could make a person like me to become more systematic. She is also an expert in personality. Actually she made me interested in personality and organization behaviour. She is also a person who saw my talents in training
7. Daniel, A.Manager: Helpful manager but at times being bullied by me. I felt sorry for what I had done in the past.
8. Adrian, S.Manager: My sifu in preparing me to be a manager. He made me do stuffs that even most of the managers don’t do. He guide me in new tasks. He is also a very close friend of mine. He share many of his experience with me so that I could learn from the mistake he done before. He is also a very misunderstood person. Many dislike him but not me. He also showed me the “darkness” when seated above.
9. Sally, Manager: Systematic, practical and pushy manager. Make you do things and kept on reminding you to do it. Helps to defend you if you are framed. Scold you if you did things wrong. A women who has a clear line between good and evil. She is also playful when the situation allows.
10. Soo, A.Manager: Rich guy, close friend. A person you can count on as a friend. Very easy going and helps you in times of trouble.
After listing all my bosses I know who I am today. I am a combination of Jason, Adrian and Joanne. I treat subordinates like Jason, caring and share the subordinates’ feelings. Train them like Joanne being strict at times and prepare them to climb the corporate ladder like Adrian. Lets hope that my boys like me the way I am. I hope I don’t pressure them too much because it had been busy for them recently.
Today 2 out of 3 of my sifu had resigned. I know I must appreciate the one which still remains but she is now AGM. Its difficult to have time to talk to her like it used to be. Now I hope I could be a good role model for my staffs. It is time I get entrusted to than being entrusted.
What do you think? Am I good enough?
This brought my mind to the past and started to evaluate my bosses again after all these years. After thinking maybe I should list down all the bosses that I worked with before to have a clear picture and not miss anyone. That is why I started blogging (since I have to write out why not blog about it). I will list down their advantage or strength as a manager. The bad things, better don’t publish because afraid I get sued for defamation.
1. Farok, Manager : Very concerned about subordinates & customers
2. Joyce, A. Manager: Work like a mom, taking care of subordinates.
3. Jason, Manager: A man who gets things done and made me better. I truly he play some part in carving me to who I am today. He thought to treat people the way I want to be treated. The thought me how to control my compulsive temper. He showed me what its like for the life above me and he treated me like a son or brother. Even after he left the company, he continued to help me grow. He is like a sifu to me
4. Frances, A.Manager: Iron Lady. Went through a lot together with her. A very practical person and very optimistic. Believes in what we can do and never afraid of doing too much. She too thought many things. She is also a laughing Buddha for the company. Now, she handles other department but still very helpful as usual
5. Chai, G.Manager: No comment.
6. Joanne, S. Manager: Great lady. Very systematic. The fascinating part about her is how she could instill fear in me in a very gentle way. Weird right? She thought me many things and she is also a sifu to me. Strict when is required, gentle when its appropriate. She is one lady many people misunderstood her maybe because the hung a strict face all the time. She is a great teacher in planning. Truly a guru because imagine she could make a person like me to become more systematic. She is also an expert in personality. Actually she made me interested in personality and organization behaviour. She is also a person who saw my talents in training
7. Daniel, A.Manager: Helpful manager but at times being bullied by me. I felt sorry for what I had done in the past.
8. Adrian, S.Manager: My sifu in preparing me to be a manager. He made me do stuffs that even most of the managers don’t do. He guide me in new tasks. He is also a very close friend of mine. He share many of his experience with me so that I could learn from the mistake he done before. He is also a very misunderstood person. Many dislike him but not me. He also showed me the “darkness” when seated above.
9. Sally, Manager: Systematic, practical and pushy manager. Make you do things and kept on reminding you to do it. Helps to defend you if you are framed. Scold you if you did things wrong. A women who has a clear line between good and evil. She is also playful when the situation allows.
10. Soo, A.Manager: Rich guy, close friend. A person you can count on as a friend. Very easy going and helps you in times of trouble.
After listing all my bosses I know who I am today. I am a combination of Jason, Adrian and Joanne. I treat subordinates like Jason, caring and share the subordinates’ feelings. Train them like Joanne being strict at times and prepare them to climb the corporate ladder like Adrian. Lets hope that my boys like me the way I am. I hope I don’t pressure them too much because it had been busy for them recently.
Today 2 out of 3 of my sifu had resigned. I know I must appreciate the one which still remains but she is now AGM. Its difficult to have time to talk to her like it used to be. Now I hope I could be a good role model for my staffs. It is time I get entrusted to than being entrusted.
What do you think? Am I good enough?
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Old man Play Badminton
Being influenced by the recent Thomas & Uber Cup in Malaysia, i had registered myself to a badminton competition in my company. Its a League tournament just like Thomas Cup.
Yesterday was my first match and i will have to face my fellow colleague in the same department. Before the match i already knew that i am no match for him but due to sportsmanship, i stubbornly played. I thought miracles just like Malaysia VS Japan would happen on me but unfortunately it did not
Anyway, just after one match my thigh is already aching. I was wondering how could i survive the following matches that i must play. I totally regret my actions of registering to the match. My day one result is i got beaten 21 - 16, 21 - 8. Disgraceful match
Anyway just play for fun lah!
Yesterday was my first match and i will have to face my fellow colleague in the same department. Before the match i already knew that i am no match for him but due to sportsmanship, i stubbornly played. I thought miracles just like Malaysia VS Japan would happen on me but unfortunately it did not
Anyway, just after one match my thigh is already aching. I was wondering how could i survive the following matches that i must play. I totally regret my actions of registering to the match. My day one result is i got beaten 21 - 16, 21 - 8. Disgraceful match
Anyway just play for fun lah!
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She's Gonna be 2 on Monday
Like many might have known, this coming Monday marks my second anniversary being a father. Well life had been tough throughout these 2 years but with the support from my wife it had been easier.
If you ask me, will i be able to take good care of my baby if i am alone? well the answer is never. I knew that by saying this "SHE" might be proud of her achievement but its ok. Fact is Fact...
Anyway Shuen had been growing well. though now she dont know much vocabulary but she is catching up. I could hear new words everyday and (had my fingers crossed) hopefully i will be able to chat with her
I dont know about others but i can tell you i am very proud to be a father. Life may have its ups and downs but your family will always be there for you. Everyday after a tired day at work, i get a recharge by kissing my wife or baby when i am home. It feels good to be alive.
Our life? Simple... Work, Come home, kiss them, take bath, eat, play, enjoy some moments together, enjoy some time alone, cover blanket for each other, good night kiss, sleep and repeat the same this tomorrow.Simple, enjoyable & Living.
I pray each day and hope we have the same tomorrow everyday.
If you ask me, will i be able to take good care of my baby if i am alone? well the answer is never. I knew that by saying this "SHE" might be proud of her achievement but its ok. Fact is Fact...
Anyway Shuen had been growing well. though now she dont know much vocabulary but she is catching up. I could hear new words everyday and (had my fingers crossed) hopefully i will be able to chat with her
I dont know about others but i can tell you i am very proud to be a father. Life may have its ups and downs but your family will always be there for you. Everyday after a tired day at work, i get a recharge by kissing my wife or baby when i am home. It feels good to be alive.
Our life? Simple... Work, Come home, kiss them, take bath, eat, play, enjoy some moments together, enjoy some time alone, cover blanket for each other, good night kiss, sleep and repeat the same this tomorrow.Simple, enjoyable & Living.
I pray each day and hope we have the same tomorrow everyday.
April... Month of travel
Ladies and gentlemen, April 2010 will be a great month to me because i will be travelling alot!
Well basically i will be going to 2 countries.
1- China on a company incentive trip. Well i am not the achievers but i had been chosen to acompany the achievers. Anyway i will be going to Shanghai. I am so looking forward to be there. Anyway i will not be bringing along my nikon camera so maybe yu wont see pictures
2 - Thailand. A little worried about trveling there because of the riot there. Just have to becareful there. This i will be going with my wife so beautiful pictures could be expected
Well basically i will be going to 2 countries.
1- China on a company incentive trip. Well i am not the achievers but i had been chosen to acompany the achievers. Anyway i will be going to Shanghai. I am so looking forward to be there. Anyway i will not be bringing along my nikon camera so maybe yu wont see pictures
2 - Thailand. A little worried about trveling there because of the riot there. Just have to becareful there. This i will be going with my wife so beautiful pictures could be expected
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New Bottle for Chermaine
If anyone asks me "how can i make my daughter drink water? Well the answer is buy her a bottle. Lately my wife and i saw that my daughter loves to drink from our water bottle and so we decided to buy her one which kas a small hole for drinking.
After we done it the result is.... well watch it for yourself. This is take at the very first day
The water sure looks tasty... judging from her expression. Note: its just plain water.
After we done it the result is.... well watch it for yourself. This is take at the very first day
The water sure looks tasty... judging from her expression. Note: its just plain water.
Happy Family bottle. The Fat and tall bottle belongs to papa bear. the shorter one (due to photo shooting effect) belongs to mama bear while the one in front belongs to baby bear. Lets stay healthy and drink more water.
End of Chinese New Year Celebration
Tomorrow will be the 15th of first month of Chinese Lunar Calender. This also marks the end of the grand celebration of all Chinese people. This really makes me think of how happy days fly by. It seems like just yesterday was the reunion dinner
While i was just glancing through the photo available on my Desktop, i saw pictures that had been taken during the reunion dinner . This triggered my urge to blog after a long time not blogging.
My Family and I were having reunion in V-Garden Restaurant and above is the menu. Everyone was early except for my buggest uncle. No hope every one was waiting for him . He is at least 1 hour late!
Soon Chermaine got restless and her hands became itchy. So she started playing all sorts of things
Anyway Chinese New year had been great this year. I really wished that this will not end but i have to face the fact now. BACK to WORK! BACK to the hassels of the city and pressure for money.
While i was just glancing through the photo available on my Desktop, i saw pictures that had been taken during the reunion dinner . This triggered my urge to blog after a long time not blogging.
My Family and I were having reunion in V-Garden Restaurant and above is the menu. Everyone was early except for my buggest uncle. No hope every one was waiting for him . He is at least 1 hour late!
Soon Chermaine got restless and her hands became itchy. So she started playing all sorts of things
It was as sweet as sugar when she kissed me. :)
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Finally everyone is here and here comes our very first dish. Yee Sang!
So everyone stood and Lou Sang (Direct translation:: MIX raw).
With this i would like to wish me and my family
- Step step high rise
- Horse Come work done
- Dragon horse Sperm God
- Year Year got Fish
- Year Year got today, life life got this morning
- Abundant of wealth
- Year Round happiness
- The Nation will Prosper
After Dinner! Proceed to my Uncles house and Give Ang Pow. Chermaine had been good enough and "Gong Xi, Gong Xi" To everyone. It really seems like she loved money a lot. She Smiles when she recieved Ang Pow
To make matter worse, She went "WOW!" when one aunt of mine gave her twin packets of red packets.
Anyway Chinese New year had been great this year. I really wished that this will not end but i have to face the fact now. BACK to WORK! BACK to the hassels of the city and pressure for money.
Anyhow we have to grow. My daughter is growing year by year.
GAMBATE! GET MORE MONEY! thats my new year resolution. I need to give my wife and daughter all the best i could afford
What will happen if all the villains turn good?
Well the heroes will be out of job right? This is what they will do.
Well in the end at least they get to put their skills into good use
Who is Batman's Father?
Now before i start, let me ask you. Do you know Batman? if you answer is yes please read on. If you answer is no, then this will mean nothing to you. therefore you may exit now and come back when you find out who is batman
Anyway i was looking back at my old mails and found this picture and thought to share. i got this information very long time ago and i am sure many of you had seen this. Well no harm sharing it again.
Many might be curious because in the Batman's movies they had never shown his parents and now with this evident, i could prove who is Batman's father and His race. No Batman is not an american. As a matter of fact he is a singaporean and he is a Javanese. Batman's father is superman. Dont believe me? see his IC
SEE! this is evident!
One funny story
While i was blog surfing, i found this guy's blog and i think he is a great blogger. Anyway his title caught my attention when i saw it at innit. below is the link to the article he wrote that caught my attention
http://j-zp.blogspot.com/2010/01/average-length-of-males-genitals.html
Honestly i really agree with him and i really thought the blacks are horses. Is it true that the whites brought down the average? well lets leave it to your imagination. lol
France top the chart? no wonder its known for being the city of love. I understand that they are very straight foward at asking for sex. I think its because they know the ladies will love their huge "mushroom". hahahah.
http://j-zp.blogspot.com/2010/01/average-length-of-males-genitals.html
Honestly i really agree with him and i really thought the blacks are horses. Is it true that the whites brought down the average? well lets leave it to your imagination. lol
France top the chart? no wonder its known for being the city of love. I understand that they are very straight foward at asking for sex. I think its because they know the ladies will love their huge "mushroom". hahahah.
My Playful Daughter
Recently, i notice that my daughter will pose without asking to whenever she sees a camera. Its kinda sweet and cute when we took her pictures. Honesyly lately she had became very playful & naughty. But anyway as a parent i still love her the same
My wife told me that we do not have any of her picture this month when she is 1 year 8 months so we quickly took out our camera and started snapping pictures in our room. Chermaine instantly started posing when she saw me holding a camera. here are some great takes... funny how it went...
Unexpectedly i have been a father for 1 year & 8 months now. Thing had been great in my family. Of course we still have our quarrel at times but non of it had affected our relationship. for the past 1 year 8 months, it was filled with joy, laughter, sadness and also tears. You name it we had it.
My wife told me that we do not have any of her picture this month when she is 1 year 8 months so we quickly took out our camera and started snapping pictures in our room. Chermaine instantly started posing when she saw me holding a camera. here are some great takes... funny how it went...
Unexpectedly i have been a father for 1 year & 8 months now. Thing had been great in my family. Of course we still have our quarrel at times but non of it had affected our relationship. for the past 1 year 8 months, it was filled with joy, laughter, sadness and also tears. You name it we had it.I was feeling guilty because ever since i got promoted i am often home late and i also went to work early. if i count, i would say i work almost 12 hours daily inclusive of my travelling time. i go to work at 8 am and reach home at about 8 pm.
After a tiring day at work, i will spring back to life when i saw my dauther is not asleep yet. She is one of my motivation to work harder. The only thing in my thought now is to make a better life for Chloe and Chermaine.
I swear i will give everything i can to my wife and daughter. I hope i could really build their dreams with my two hands. I dont mind being tired as long as i could see them smile.
After a tiring day at work, i will spring back to life when i saw my dauther is not asleep yet. She is one of my motivation to work harder. The only thing in my thought now is to make a better life for Chloe and Chermaine.
I swear i will give everything i can to my wife and daughter. I hope i could really build their dreams with my two hands. I dont mind being tired as long as i could see them smile.Now seeing pictures like these i know i am building a happy family. I will ensure that this happy times will last a lifetime. Lets hope that blogger.com will never be shut down and it will last forever. This way, all these moments will forever be available to be shared in the future.
Who knows, maybe one day my daughter will read my blog and she will know how much my wife and i love her. My wife? dont worry about it i know she will be reading my blog
Announcement: This blog will no longer have any office life stories
Now its official... My blog will no longer have any stories about office... Why? simple... Its because there are many spies... That's why i have not been updating much... There are many stories that i would like to share but no... no more! no more blogging about real office life
Anyway for you spies that are reading my blog... may you rot in hell and i will never talk about it again. HAPPY? i am ok with it... though i may have some hunch you are but nevermind... I choose to forget it because it will make me happier if i do not know
From today on, this blog will really concentrate on life... my life, my family life... if you are intrested, go ahead and follow me... if no, its ok...i dont need spies in my blog
Anyway for you spies that are reading my blog... may you rot in hell and i will never talk about it again. HAPPY? i am ok with it... though i may have some hunch you are but nevermind... I choose to forget it because it will make me happier if i do not know
From today on, this blog will really concentrate on life... my life, my family life... if you are intrested, go ahead and follow me... if no, its ok...i dont need spies in my blog
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Chinese New Year
As time flies by, now days are drawing near to Chinese New Year. Oh how i wish it comes quick. This way i could take some nice time away from the busy town. I will spend some time in Kuching in my in-laws' home.
Now what do i wish for CNY? i was hoping that my daughter will be able to remember her grand parents. its been some time since they met. It would be very heartbreaking if chermaine could not recognise them.
I know because i will feel the same...
Now what do i wish for CNY? i was hoping that my daughter will be able to remember her grand parents. its been some time since they met. It would be very heartbreaking if chermaine could not recognise them.
I know because i will feel the same...
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Kenny
Free drinks for ladies to take off their bra
Read this intresting story in the star today. Check it out at http://www.thestar.com.my/
Anyway i think its kinda racist what about the men? Why dont they organize take out my underwear and give it accordingly
Honestly its a very daring move by the bar owner and at the same time, i am very sure there are lots of men will be there to take a look at how those ladies take out their bra.
Its really thinking out of the box but ladies might get offended. but heck i am sure pub girls wont be ashamed to take them off especially when they are drunk
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