Showing posts with label General. Show all posts
Showing posts with label General. Show all posts
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KEEP your house SAFE for your KIDS!!!

Here is another unfortunate event happened on a kid. read more here (http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2013/1/23/nation/12612642&sec=nation). What is wrong in this world today. there are so many accidents.

For this accident i think its the parents' fault. look at the TV rack below its so unsafe! Don't talk about kids shaking it, even adults might accidentally knock the TV down with their butt... Plus, its reported that this is not the first time the boy shake the rack. Extra attention is required when we knew it would happen.
 
 
Anyway the boy is gone. No point blaming anyone for this. Again lets take this as a reminder to all parents to try as much as possible to make our home safe. Never allow your kids to play with anything dangerous.
 
Well below are some precaution i had taken. I am sure there are more. If any reader have any extra ideas please let me know at the comments. I hope to make my house safer for my 5 years old and 1 year old kid.
  1. Never allow my kids to climb the stairs alone (especially the one year old)
  2. No had one any electrical sockets. i will tell them every time they touch it.
  3. never go to near a tv (its also bad for their eyesight)
  4. Door stopper at their playroom
  5. poisonous, sharp and harmful items are kept out of reach
  6. stick safely rubbery thingy it the sharp edges of any furniture
  7. forbidden to use anything that could ignite flames
  8. No jumping on sofa and beds. Even my bed is the japanese style type which is a very low bed
Well thats all i could think of now. Let me know if there are any more items which could cause harm to my kids.
 


McDonalds delivery in Malaysia. BAD Service

Its Saturday 30th April 2010, 2.30 pm. My wife complained to me that she is hungry and wanted to call Mcdonalds delivery. She was so lazy to call so I did it. I made the call and ordered. I ordered a Coke can glass set of McDonalds regular Ayam Goreng set with Strawberry sundae and a 6 piece nugget ala carte.

Patiently we continued to wait but without noticing, its been an hour since our order. I called Mcdonalds again to check the order. The reply was dear sir, your order had been sent. I asked when and the answer was 5 minutes ago. I was frustrated but since its already coming so its ok.

I waited for another 10 minutes but the delivery has not arrived. Now McDonalds is just 5 minutes away. I called to check and the operator answered saying that the delivery have not been made. So I mentioned that the first operator told me the order was already on the way.

The operator only said I will put a remark saying that it’s a late delivery. At this point I was more frustrated but there is no point barking at the operator and so I said thanks and hang up
Finally the delivery arrived after more than 1 hour 20 minutes. A little angry I asked the delivery boy why does it takes so long to make this delivery. He said that system was down. Quickly I brought the food upstairs to share with my wife and daughter.

At the moment my wife open the ayam goreng, she notice that it was Spicy ayam goreng. I told her to eat it since the delivery was wrong. after meal, its desert time and it is now that we notice the sundae was not delivered. I made a complaint to mcdonalds and they mentioned that it will be replaced shortly. This is when my nightmare begins.

30 minutes later, after I forgotten the matter, my wife asked where is the sundae? Immediately I called again and the operator said its on the way. Satisfied with the answer I got back waiting. 15 minutes later, I made my second call and the operator said its on the way. Furious I told him that another operator gave me the same answer 15 minutes ago. He apologized and we hang up.

Now another 15 minutes gone and this time I called and an operator told me that it had not been delivered and will be coming shortly. I told her that this is my 3rd time calling and she said the store manager shall call me back. This time I asked her name and she said she is Fazi.
15 minutes later still not answer from the McDonald Taman Sri Andalas manager and delivery is not here as well. This time operator Jeremy answered and I said my stories all over again and he said he will talk to the store manager to give me a call back. 10 minutes passed but still no news nor delivery. This time Salam answered my call and I was so frustrated that I started barking at him.

All Salam could do is just to say sorry. He too promise me that the store manager will call me and the sundae will be replaced. Minutes passed and still no news. More frustrated, this time Sukma answered and I demand to speak to his leader. A man by the name of Sukri answered and he told me that he spoke to the manager himself and my order shall be replaced. I lost my temper on him and demand the store manager to speak to me. He mentioned that the store manager on duty is Prakash.

Soon I received a call from the outlet by a malay lady. I my mind I said this is not Prakash! So I started to comment my frustration to her. She just answer I will deliver now. Dissatisfied I continued to demand answer for such long waiting period. Unable to answer me she slammed the phone on me. Now I had reached my boiling point and called Sukri to ask him how should I complain but his subordinates said he is on the line and shall call me back later. I never receive his call until now.

By the time I get my sup of Sundae it is already 6.30 evening. Yes! From lunch its now dinner time. Imagine the time required to enjoy Mcdonald’s services.

Now from my long story, I am sure you understand my frustration. The imbecile Prakash is one big problem avoider. McDonalds services is a piece of shit. They made all the mistakes that a service industry should never do. Now look below the list of mistakes done just for one delivery:-
1. Uninformed late delivery:- one hour late
2. Sending the wrong item
3. Giving fake information: lied that the order had been delivered
4. Did not comply to promises: Prakash did not call back, Sukri did not call back
5. Slammed the phone on me
6. Ask someone else to just entertain me
7. Never give proper explanation for the mistakes
8. No sense of responsibility


Now I pray all you people out there to spread my blog to all your friends. Let them know and maybe one of them is McDonalds’ top management. I want Prakash to answer for his disability to manage the outlet. Another person who is very rude is the malay girl who called me and slammed the phone on me. She should be fired!

Please spread far and wide so more people knew about this. Anyway regardless of the lousy service, I will not boycott mcdonalds. It’s the employees’ fault not the company. Maybe some adjustments should be done on their system
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Today’s apple polisher…

Do you remember those days when your mother asked you to study hard to ensure that you have a good future? Well all those are the things of the past. In today’s world intelligence might be useful but not as useful as apple polishing.

If schools would like their students to be able to get a good job in the future, be sure that they create a new class called bodek class… at practical exam, get them to polish a man with high pride. If he likes it then give them an A.

Many people in Malaysia benefited from having the polishing skills. Well I’ve seen many myself. Let me tell you one of many that I’ve seen before.

Now there is a lady from a foreign nationality was posted in my office as Finance Director. She had trained well at her polishing skills. If you ask me her job description, my answer is below

  1. Feed boss’s favorite dog every morning.
  2. At lunch be sure to feed the boss himself. Don’t pack food, cook for him. The best way to get to a man’s heart is through his tummy
  3. Chat with the boss whenever possible
  4. If anyone does any minor mistake, make it big and tell the boss
  5. If you did any mistake, shut up and use your power to make everyone else shut up. Ensure that the news did not reach the boss
  6. If required, make a scrape goat out of anybody to take the blame
  7. If there is something that you forget to do even though after reminders, act naïve and say no one told you before. If there is a black and white, blame it on IT.
  8. Make people’s life miserable. If they have a good life they will have time to plan for your downfall
  9. Whatever the boss said just say yes. Don’t worry, its your subordinates that needs to do the job regardless if they like it or not.
  10. When boss is complaining about anyone else, try to recall past wrong doings and increase the problem.
  11. When an issue arises, don’t find solutions. Find who is at the fault and put him to the boss’s office
  12. When boss praise a job well done accept the complement, otherwise say who did it
  13. Cut cost. Cut toilet paper, cut water usage, cut electricity cut wages and cut bonuses.
  14. Say that you will stay late to complete a certain task but put an idiot to do it after the boss left

Anyway I will write more if I could recall more. Every morning before she does any work, she will ensure that the dog is fed. Then make breakfast for the boss and go back to her room. In the room, continue to look busy at facebook.com. when boss is free, go to his room and talk nonsense

At lunch wait for boss for lunch. If possible cook for him. Never leave the boss’s sight. Do some job for the rest of the day. If there is some dirty job to be done, assign it to someone. If he rejects the task, tell the boss.

Everyone hates her. She knew it but the boss don’t. And my boss dare to tell me that its difficult to polish him and change his mind. My understanding? Its so damn easy

Boys and girls if you need to learn, just learn the basic of school education and practice more on apple polishing. You will gain more from it.

People used to say “Bullshit could take you higher but cant keep you there”. In today’s world, all you need to do is to have continuous bullshit everyday to maintain the momentum and stay high. When things go wrong, bullshit somewhere else. There are companies everywhere

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Crazy and Nasty Bosses

Despite the fact that the offer letter had been defined that resignation requires one month notice, some bosses could really turn and twist the story and makes it otherwise. I have a real life story of an unfortunate friend of mine. Below is her side of story…

Miss Yap (not her real name) had been attached to a company for more than 5 years now and as she could no longer stand the pressure of her job she had decided to put an end to it.

Miss yap was promoted from an executive to a manager during her employment in the company. When she got promoted, a new offer letter was signed and given to her. In the letter, it mentioned that she will get an amount of salary and notice of termination is as per her employment offer letter. In her first offer letter, notice of resignation clearly states that it requires one month.

After she found a new job, Miss yap tendered her resignation with a month notice and waited for the bosses news and advise on her last day of employment but in vain. Again and again she asked the secretary but still no news. When finally there are news about her last day, it was a bad news.

The boss said that she requires 3 months notice for resignation. Now calling in 2 other senior positioned employees, the boss forced the poor miss yap to sign a letter which states that she requires 1 and a half month notice. How did he forced her? Well the boss said that if she refuse to sign the letter, she will be charged under improper handover and shall be sued. The boss also said that he had consulted the company’s lawyer that it could be done. Now miss yap wanted to handover her job to the boss but he refused. (the boss is miss yap’s immediate superior and have no subordinates as all had resigned)

After such pressure and circumstances, Miss Yap unwillingly signed the letter and the 2 management employees act as a witness. Now after signing the letter, the boss said her last day will be 1 and a half month away. From here it might not look different but in actual fact, the boss had delayed the news for more than 2 weeks.

In other words, in order for miss yap to resign it requires 2 months notice. Considering that you are the employer of the new company, will you wait? Of course the poor lady lost her new job as well. Acting like a good boss, the boss said to Yap that he will consider to rehire her back if she would like to (in a manner that he is doing a favor for her).

What is the point of this story? Its just a reminder to folks out there that bosses could be really nasty if they want to. When you get a good boss, stick with them. It’s a jungle out there.

Now here are my questions…
1. Is it true that the boss could charge yap for improper handover despite the fact that she wanted to handover all these while?
2. Can the boss delay the news and treat it as null?
3. I believe that in the worst case scenario, Miss yap might need to pay the indemnity of maximum the number of days that she did not serve the notice.
4. What can be done to prevent such case from happening to anyone else?
5. Doesn’t Malaysian government have any rules which could prevent such cases from happening again?

If you do know the answer, please do feel free to comment as I would like to learn and prevent it from happening to me
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THEY are involved in my mood and temper

Who are they? of course they are my wife and daughter.

You see after a tough day at work, my only wish is to return home and be next to my family. The very first moment i see my room, wife and daughter it will play a big role towards my temper and mood for the remaining of hours of that day.

Now here are all the ifs that will happen

If i return home and find my wife playing with my daughter happily, i know i will have a very good mood. I enjoy seeing both of them playing. It really makes my day. When they are happy i will too

If i return home and my daughter came running to hug me, then i know it will be a good evening. My pampered daughter will come hugging me and kiss me on the cheek. This shows that she misses me and like me to be home

If i return home seeing my wife with a sweet smile. This will be a good day also because she is happy and i will think i did a good job as a husband, which is to give her a good life and remove her stress

If i return home and both of them dont bother and mind their own business, this day is a moderate mood day. Well they dont care of my return

If i return home and both of them are argueing, it will be a bad day.

If i return home seeing either one crying, it will be a bad day

If i return home and my wife just cleaned the room, it will be a good day because its comfortable. Then i will wash the toilet happily... lol

if i return home and my daughter trashed up the room, its a bad day because its messy and it will mess up my mind

If i return home and both of them are sleeping, then i will know i have a good day

actually there are more ifs but i could not recall now. Maybe when i recall i will reblog about it... lol
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How parents always lose contol on their Child

As we could read on the Internet, there are always many stories that tell parents how they should never lose their temper on their children. Well, its always easier said than done. I recently recall a story about how a boy would like to borrow some money from his father to buy his father's time. No matter how many times i read the story, its always touching.

Well this is something that i could not do for my daughter. i am losing quality time with her. Everyday i may be at home but after a tough day at work, i don't seem to be able to find energy for her.Even at the weekend, i think i don't spend enough time with her. Maybe i am a little greedy to hope for more time with her but i think i owe my wife and daughter an apology. Why? for not spending enough time with them

Every since i joined this new company, i am always required to do many jobs which in turn caused me to work overtime. Even if i dont work overtime, i still have problems controlling my temper. Well i just lost it again recently. It must be tough for Shuen because i could even see fear on my wife. No i did not beat her because my wife and i promise never to beat our child whenever we are angry yet they are already that scared. Am i really that scary? Maybe... because my voice is loud and my angry face could scare a lion away. Just like how Zhang Fei scared Cao Cao and his troops with just a loud roar.

Now back to topic on how to control our temper. My solution and best way to do so is with the help from our better half, our spouse. Most of the time when one of the parent is angry, the other may be at normal mood. This is where he/she should intervine between the parent and the child. S/he should pull the child away from the angry person. I find that this is the best way because it allows time for the angry parent to calm down and think of their mistake

Another way which i think is useful is to walk away from the child when you are angry. I always do that and i know it works. When a person is angry, S/he will have some kinda chemical which causes angryness to happen. when time passes, this will reduce and angryness shall leave you.

Why should we not scold our child? Because they are naive and innocent. they do not know what is happenning around us. Like the chinese always say (the person who dont know is not at fault). Besides, they are following our example. If we beat them when they are naughty, we are teaching them that whenever anyone is naughty, we must beat. This will cause your child to beat anyone who is naughty including their friends and family.

I think i am a failure as a dad. I dont have much time for my daughter, i scold her when she is naughty and i also spank her when she does wrong. Eventhough its just a small light spanking but it already program her that beating is a solution to naughtyness.

Now, she is soundly asleep clinging to her mother who is also in deep slumber. What am i doing? well i intend to join them in dreamland but i need to cool myself down. My damn aircond is not cold enough to cool down my temper. Shits happens in the company.

Same shit different day....I always tell myself not to bring my work problems home but its just easier said than done. I usually do well at controlling my temper but i think its not good enough.

On the other hand, do you know that my wife and daughter play some role in my mood? Well i will write this on my next blog
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Jason's Words of Wisdom

Recently my good ex-boss was kind enough to send me words of wisdom daily. After accumulating for some days, here is what i recieved from him. The reason i post about it is because maybe in the near future it might come in handy. Besides, SMS very soon will be all gone. Better write it down somewhere and i chose to Blog about it (Its been some time since i last blogged)

1. Lao Tzu

· To become an excellent leader, you have to abandon addiction to praise from above and flattery from below. The excellent leader leads least. He studies the distinctive skills and the natural inclinations of both those above and below, and he directs their attention to accomplish what is required to benefit all. when this has been done, all declare they have been part of a worthwhile purpose

· when you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare and compete, everyone will respect you

2. Confucius

· There are three principles of conduct of which the man of high rank should consider especially important. that is his deportment and manner he keep from violence and hardness; that in regulating his countenance he keep near sincerity; and that in his words and tones he keep from lowness and impropriety

· If one learn from others but does not think, one will be bewildered. if on the other hand, one thinks but does not learn from others, one will be at peril

· When we see men of a contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves

3. Indira Gandhi

· There are 2 kinds of people, those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there

4. Paramahansa Yogananda

· There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends.That is the magnet of unselfishness, thinking of others first. When you learn to live for others, they will live for you

5. Morita Akio

· If you go through life convinced that your way is always best, all the new ideas in the world will pass you by

6. Unknown

· He who sacrifice his conscience to ambition burns a picture to obtain the ashes

· He who asks is a fool for five minutes but he who does not ask remains a fool forever

The important moral for all these quotes are not the words but the value it brings - by marriedmansmoments!

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Humans love to assume “making an ASS out of yoU and ME”.

I remember one of my boss telling me not to assume. It is always better to get solid facts before making any approach but the fact is, its natural for human to assume. Take for example do you wake up and see if the floor is exactly where you last seen it? See we never check if there floor is still there. We assume that its there when we woke up. Imagine the trouble we have to go through if we have to check if its there every morning.

Assuming is not always wrong. Everyone makes their own assumptions. Now here is another example; When I say “Car”, which car came into your mind? It carries different meaning to different people. My definition of car may be Suzuki Swift but my boss’s car may be Mercedes Benz. Here we already made assumptions.

Here is something I picked up from a book which I think kind of meaningful:-
“ A tidy desk shows a tidy mind”, now does this means an empty desk shows an empty mind? This example shows that humans tend to generalize things.

Anyway, frequently when we speak to bosses we always lose in the debate. Wanna know why? The reason is simple, when we speak to bosses, we need to prepare evidence to support our point & grounds but when they speak, no evidence is required. They have the right to assume all they want and we cant go and sound them “where is the evidence?”.

The boss’s mind had been blurred by their past achievements. They already have a mind set that their methods are correct. The evident is now (I am the boss you are my staff). This is evident enough to diminish all other evident. Now, they have the right to assume!

Why people assume? Because it makes life easier. By assuming, I do not need to look for supportive evident to prove my point. By assuming, I need not require so much time to look for my point. Well you may find hundreds of excuses for making assumptions.

Now I am at a point where I do not know whether if assuming is right or wrong. I’m sure there is no definite answer to this question. It all depends on situation. At some point, we have to assume to make life easier but on the other hand without assumptions are better.

Well it just seems that most bosses do not understand their staffs. Well I understand my staffs but I am not a boss… hahahaha… Anyway just blogging about my thinking. It might have bored many of you out there in this article. Comeone lah… don’t be too picky lah…
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Blogging about sex & Malaysian English very kau lat

You know blogging about sex will always bring traffic to your blog. This is not a statement that I made up but its supported with documents. Try dailychilli for example. Their write-ups about sex have very huge feedbacks.

Anyway what I am more amaze is how Malaysians react to such write-ups. You see the Malaysian English is more sophisticated compared to normal English. We have multi-racial combinations towards the comments and it really makes the comments worth reading.

Funny in one sense but some are also true. The commenter really made my day. I was alone at my cubicle reading those comments and started laughing about all the comments. That had caused me to comment as well.

I read several write-ups but what really captured my attention is their write-up about “Sex twice a week keeps men healthier” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1785-sex-twice-a-week-keeps-men-healthier), “10 places where women want to be touched” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/554-10-places-to-touch-a-women ), and “Why Should you have sex everyday” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1084-why-you-should-have-sex-everyday ). These are evidence that blogging about sex will increase traffics. Hey, today these are the most emailed article leh!

The write-up is nothing uncommon. The commenter are more lively. The usage of Malaysia English is very much not in the dictionaries. It’s a mixure of Chinese Dialects, Malay words and some metaphors that only Malaysian will understand.

Anyway I think I should write more about sex since its getting more attention. Maybe this way, I would get more traffic to my blog?
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The increase of “Buang Anak” cases

*** If you will feel offended about the topic, please do not read on***

Have you every wondered why people are willing to conduct such inhumane task such as killing their baby or just let them rot by the streets. These babies are innocent and they have done nothing wrong to deserve such inhumane acts.

As a father, I seriously feel that they are losing the chance of seeing their baby grow. Surely there are times when you feel that they are a nuisance but there are also times where you are glad to have them.

Anyway I had been thinking what are the reasons that caused these parents to do so? Culture? Social pressure? Money? Well you should think of the side effects when you do not conduct safe sex. Regardless what the reasons are, throwing your babies are always not an option.

I am not only against buang anak. I am also against abortion. I knew that recently Malaysia had developed some sites to allow parents to pass their babies to safe hands. Though you might never see your baby again but at least you can ensure that they will be given a second chance to live regardless of what kind of life they might have. This option is always better than losing the chance at all.

I am happy having my baby to disturb my sleep and having my baby to stop me from smoking. Although its irritating but if you think back its kind of sweet when she suddenly run to your shoulders and hug you. When I am down, she sits patiently next to me and patting my head as if I am the baby and she is my mother.

If I had threw her away, I would never have such experience. Now even the thought of losing her hurts me so much that I would shed a tear.

One thing for sure is there had been increase in regards to buang anak cases and abortion cases. Will harsh sentence in terms of law help the decrease? I don’t think so. Just take a look at our drug trafficking sentence which is many times harsher and scarier but yet it still happens.

We need to find the root cause for the problem. From my opinion, it may be due to social pressure which caused it. These parents do not want to be the laughing stock of the public where some auntie on the streets will look at them and pointing their fingers to them and say all kinds of words.

Another cause of the problem might also be due to religion. I had been observing some people who laugh at people who skipped fasting during the fasting months. You see I don’t see the problem of the person who skipped fasting because he/she is working in an environment which hinders him/her from fasting. Example labourer, chef or iron casting industry. If they do not eat, they will die… seriously. By the way, what happens if they don’t fast? If the person don’t feel like fasting, the sin will be on them not you. Why bother and laugh at people? My point is, if someone decided to give birth without any marriage, so be it. If you laugh at them, you are enticing them to do a bigger sin such as buang anak or abortion.

Other reason which I could think of is financial problem. Parents might be too poor to sustain the life of their baby. Therefore I support the government’s move to allow parents to put their baby in those shelters. I am sure someone will be willing to adopt them or even if they are not adopted, these babies could contribute or payback their debts to the shelter by working and support the shelter which they grew up in. Of course parent’s details should be confidential to avoid future problems

The best way is always be responsible. Every action will have a chain of reactions. Anyway I do not have any authority to comment on the topic. I just felt that its wrong to do so and so just wanna blog about it. Please do not feel offended about what I say. Just some comment.
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Peacefully alone… Thinking about life

Like many would think, being left alone is a bad thing. For me, I am enjoying it. Its been 5 years since I last being left alone to do my own things. Today I am glad that it is my turn to have such opportunity.

I came to work and had lots of time to stay put and do nothing. Though some people will come and meet me from time to time but I am not needed in any meetings. I do not require to handle projects and I don’t use much brain power.

All I have to do now is to settle whatever tasks which is incomplete. I am also required to handover my uncompleted businesses to my fellow colleagues… (poor people). Lol

It is a good day. I woke up nicely this morning and feel glad I am still alive… Despite the fact my daughter woke me up 4 times for milk yesterday. Even though I woke up late, I did not rush to work and the traffic was not congested at all. I arrive 2 minutes late. I also have a nice good morning kiss from my wife and daughter…

When I left home, my daughter said bye bye to me. When I reached office few colleagues said good morning to me and until not anyone bothered me for big problems. It is a great day.

After years of struggling, I finally found peace at workplace. Maybe because there are no new tasks that would upset my plans. I am really getting old fast. I honestly feel like an old man looking for peace at mind.

I had been wondering what will be waiting for me at the new company? Like their industrial name describes Fast Moving Consumer Goods I am sure this organization will surely work at high pace and will not have any time to think and look for peace. Anyway, the pay is good and if I am busy, my wife & daughter could have a better life. Its is definitely worth it.

I had realized few of my wife’s dreams but I know I will not realize more than this if I continued getting the petty salary I am getting. If this risk or big hop means more joy, more happiness for my family I don’t care if it brings me more stress.

People loves to say, money is not everything but without money you cant do anything. Money cant buy happiness I know, but without money you cant buy anything but suffering. My wife and I don’t wish for a very wealthy life but to a minimum we must have the capability to enjoy life such as traveling. If I spend every penny I earn everyday, we will never have such life.

I hope I can allow my wife to retire early and live life as a housewife. I hope she can enjoy her life and stressless. I can bear all her burden. Better 1 man sorrow than 1 family sorrow. I cant pluck the moon from the sky for her but at least I could put the reflection of the moon on her palm. Hope it will be as good as having the moon on her hand.

Looking forward to be home with her tonight. I am also looking forward for a nice dinner at Fairies Café with my boys Au Yeong & Nic. They have been very supportive subordinates and very good friends of mine.

Just like how Jason & Adrian treated me as a child, I take them like my child. To goorm them for better future just like Jason & Adrian did. Not to mention Joanne, Frances, Sally and other leaders who had once lead me before
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All about condoms

For a start, some people had been asking me where is the Durex advert that I had been saying? Well, its not always there. The advert sometime there and sometimes not, just like Chipsmore.

Anyway back to my topic, I’ve checked wikipedia regarding condoms and to my surprise, it’s a whole lot of information. Who would have guessed that condoms could be used in many ways and so much history in it.

Lets start with some background of the subject. Condoms have histories dated back over 4 centuries ago. The most basic use of it is for pregnancy prevention and also to avoid STD (sexually transmitted disease). Well until here most of us might have knew about it. Its waterproof, durable and elastic. I am sure you knew it too.

The most common material used is latex but some are made from polyurethane, polyisoprene, or lamb intestine. Some history check also shows that in the ancient days, the Chinese used oiled silk paper as condom (glans: a device only covers the top of the penis) or lamb intestine. (Yucks, imagine your sex partner is also doing it with a lamb intestine). In japan, tortoise shell and animal horn is also used. (I could not imagine whether your partner is having sex with you or the animal horn and shell. They are so hard and you might not feel anything.)

Despite the benefit of birth control and avoiding STD, some religion were against the use of condoms. They believe that its immoral to use them. Some also believes that its good to have STD around because it’s the karma for random sex.

Over the years, condoms had been improved in many ways. Today, condoms are more reliable, and also thinner (you can feel more now!)

In March 2003, Switzerland announced that they will produce smaller condoms called “hotshot” specially made for boys aged 12 – 14 years old. (huh, sex at 12? Lucky boys)

Types of Condom:
1) Latex (rubber)
- Most common
- Elastic
- ISO (ISO 4074 Natural latex rubber condoms)
- Used with lubricants ; reduces rubber elasticity
- With Vytex (to remove 90% of proteins responsible for allergy reactions)
2) Synthetic (non-rubber man made)
- Commonly made from polyurethane.
- Other materials: AT-10 resin, polyisoprene
- Better than latex due to better heat conduct, less sensitive with temperature, longer shelf-life, less allergenic, does
not have odor, no protein
- Cons compared to latex: less elastic (more likely to slip & break), more expensive
3) Lambskin
- Good: more sensation
- Bad: Pores on the material allows STD to happen, less allergenic compared to latex, expensive, pores large enough to allow sperm to pass through
4) Spermicidal
- Added with spermicidal, nonoxynol-9
- Study shows that condoms lubricated with spermicidal has no additional benefit in birth control
- Have shorter shelf life
- May cause urinary-tract infections in women
- With frequent use of Nonoxynol-9 increases the risk of HIV transmission
- May have stopped production
5) Textured
- Made to increase sexual pleasure
- Targeted on G-spot & frenulum
- Studded condoms should be avoided because some women experience irritation during intercourse

There are also female condoms in the market where the condom is worn by women. Well I had never seen one before in the market. So its difficult to imagine how to use them

Other uses:
1) Infertility treatment
a. A procedure to encourage child birth for those who may have problem
b. To reduce women’s natural anti-sperm antibodies
c. However no proven clinical test that it could improve pregnancy rate
2) non-lubricated condom over the muzzle of the rifle barrel in order to prevent barrel fouling by keeping out detritus
3) Covering virginal ultrasound probe with a condom reduces the amount of blood and vaginal fluids that the technician must
clean off between patients
4) Hold water during emergency situation
5) Smuggle drugs and cocaine to place the drug in the rectum.
6) Cover microphone to make underwater recording
7) Condoms are used by engineers to keep soil samples dry during soil tests
8) Condoms are used as a one-way valve by paramedics when performing a chest decompression in the field. The decompression
needle is inserted through the condom, and inserted into the chest. The condom folds over the hub allowing air to exit
the chest, but preventing it from entering

Now, the biggest problem now it’s the disposal. If you flush it, it clogs your toilet. If you throw it at the garbage disposal, the rodents will eat it as food. You throw into the sea, it will pollute the environment. What is the best way to dispose it? If you have any idea, feel free to write down some comments.

According to wikipedia, there is also some high-tech condoms in research but still yet to be introduced to the market. Things like spray on condoms or invisible condoms still have some problems to overcome. Well just see whatever future condoms might be.
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Public speaking in Sunway Pyramid

It is Sunday, 28th June 2010. Kenny Lee (Which means me) were required to conduct a public speaking at EXPO kesedaran Franchise. It was a surprise to me because my company got to know that we were required to perform something at the Expo only about 1.5 week in advance.

Immediately, a team of employees were put into a room to brainstorm about the sketch and 2 dudes were selected by the bosses to conduct a quiz as performance. Our objective was a very difficult one. To conduct a performance which could pull people’s attention, make people understand our franchise program and do not involve much cost.

WOW! It was a miracle that we manage to go through the talk. My pal and I only rehearsed not more than 1 hour and we have to be on stage for 30 minutes.

It was kind of scary at first because when it was about our turn, there were no more than 10 audiences. The question is… WHAT CAN I DO TO PULL THE CROWD! The moment truth is here. The Emcee announced our company name. I was the first to go in. From the stage I could see no more than 10 pax looking up to me.

In order to make this a success I need more audiences. I am now totally lacking of attention and so I shouted to everyone in the mall. “For you guys who could hear my voice but could no see me, come over to the concourse area and I shall give you some prize”. With that, more people came and I am now more at ease.

I was some great time talking and playing up on the stage though I thought I look like an idiot. Hahaha. My manager commented that it was a great show and I really hope its true because I do not want look like an idiot.

NOW, I have some new thing to add to my experience. Talk show at public locations. Maybe I should venture to the entertainment industry. Lol. But anyway, I really think I did a good job because at the end of the talk, we have close to 50 people looking towards the stage. From the top I could see everyone’s eyesight was towards me. Besides that I also manage to ask a family from the 2nd floor to join the game. It was fun

Anyway, It was also a tiring day yesterday. It’s a good thing that when I got home at about 9pm, both my wife and daughter were not asleep. Since they are awake, I got to play and chat with them. It’s something like an energy recharge for me. I am glad I have them by my side.
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How my new home shall be: Paloma Bandar Bukit Raja

As mentioned in previous blog, i will be purchasing a house soon. Lets hope i will get the load i need approved and be able to realize another one of my wife's dreams.

It is developed my Sime Darby and from what i see, it will be a nice place to live in. Near to the house i purchased, there is a man made loke which i think will be a place for me and my family to take a leisure walk.

My house plan is type A1 which will look like the plan below. it has 3+1 bedrooms and its 24x75 which i think is able to sustain a family ofr maximum 4. (Now 3 family members)

I would also like to attach an artist's impression of how my house will look like just to make you drool with sliver



When we were there to make a booking, the number of people waiting to purchase the house was scary. The show room was so filled that i have a hard time walking. Anyway when me and my wife went to see, we dont really have the intention to purchase.

But the more we see it, the higher the impulse he have to purchase. Hopefully we are not purchasing it impulsively. Till date i have not regretted my actions.

NOW GUYS! an advise for all the future married man... Remember to save up some money! without it you would not be able to buy one when the time comes. you will regret not saving enough just like i do. Now my wife & daughter will have to suffer with me. We wont have lots of spare money for entertainment. The lucky thing is my wife dont mind to suffer along with me. Thanks Chloe... Sorry Chermaine!

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Best approach to use credit card

During my conversation with my boss today, he also shared how rich people use the loop holes in credit card to delay the payment. According to him, they have at least 2 credit card in use and this is how they use it.

The users will have 2 credit card. For example, 1 credit card statement cut off at the beginning of the month, the other at the end of the month. Next, each card is marked with their statement date; for example, card 1 = 5th of the month, while the other 20th of the month.

Now they will use the card which has a different cut off date. If today is 10th, they will use card 1 to do any purchase. If its 2nd, they will use card 2. this way they could prolong the delay and avoid being charged the interest. These approach allows them to have approximately 50 day to do the payment without penalty.

How do they get 30 days? 30 days for card usage, 20 days for payment. This approach helps hardcore card users to prolong their credit and maximize usage. It will take great discipline to control usage so that users do not overspend

Again I would like to emphasize how rich people get richer. As you can see these people despite the fact that they are rich, they are able to find ways to reduce cost of each usage. The moral of the story is, we need to control money usage to increase saving. Just saving is not enough. We need to find how the money flows in every transaction and manipulate their loop holes.

The best approach is never there. It requires your understanding on how things work and using one’s creativity to manipulate the loop holes. Today my interest on money raised dramatically as I saw how bosses use their money. Maybe if I have time, I will try to research how money works and try to find some ways that best suit my way of spending.

Now I know that my spending method is one that could never make me rich. I need to find the best approach for myself. Lets hope I will be able to do it. Maybe I could share here in my blog if works.

The ABC of Housing loan in Malaysia.

Who would have known that we could actually make money with money? Anyway during cigarette break just now, I asked my boss about home loan since I would be purchasing one. For me, it is better to know more from him because he has many experiences in purchasing property.

He shared with me on home loans and covered the basics. Some basics are BLR-2.1% is considered acceptable and use a mortgage loan. Now for readers who will be buying property for the first time let me explain more in detail about these because I don’t know myself until I asked.

BLR = Government announced interest rate
Therefore, the higher the number the better it is. For example, BLR minus 2.1% = 2010 BLR for Malaysia is about 6%. Therefore your interested is 6-2.1= about 4%. If the bank offer higher BLR minus package, the better it is for purchasers.

Mortgage loan = Put more money, less interest payable amount but could be withdrawn when needed. Committed amount (monthly installments) will be deducted and could not be withdrawn.

My boss shared that the mortgage loan could help to safe money. Take a look at the current fixed deposit percentage in Malaysia is at about 3%. But after deducting the BLR, we actually could save about 1% of interest ( (BLR 6%- 2%) – fixed deposit 3%). So if you have extra money, place it in the loan to reduce the interest rate and save 1%.

Another tip he shared is if you relatives don’t mind to place the money in your loan, you can put more money in the mortgage loan and free yourself from interest. The money could be taken back anytime, so its better than fixed deposit. The interest growth you can pay them at 3% and from there you save 1% interest. Usually bank will earn the 1% now why not you earn it. The problem is every month you have to calculate the 3% interest and pay back to the owner.

Well the conversation enlightens me about how rich people got richer. They think a lot about all the loop holes to make money or reduce paying. With this, I learned that I should understand more about money and brush up my skills at calculations. Well I think that’s what I should do
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Who is Batman's Father?

Now before i start, let me ask you. Do you know Batman? if you answer is yes please read on. If you answer is no, then this will mean nothing to you. therefore you may exit now and come back when you find out who is batman

Anyway i was looking back at my old mails and found this picture and thought to share. i got this information very long time ago and i am sure many of you had seen this. Well no harm sharing it again.

Many might be curious because in the Batman's movies they had never shown his parents and now with this evident, i could prove who is Batman's father and His race. No Batman is not an american. As a matter of fact he is a singaporean and he is a Javanese. Batman's father is superman. Dont believe me? see his IC



SEE! this is evident!

A night at Highland Hotel Mandarin Suite
















































































I never thought i will be staying at a suite when my company invited me to witness my boss's award ceremony. Anyway i am. Few gentlemen along with myself share this suite with one f our director. It is a secial suite for Platinum vard members.
This place is huge. it has 2 rooms, 1 hall and 3 bathrooms. i is beautiful with a i think 30++ inch lcd at the hall. It was beautiful bt of course costly to stay.
The room i was staying is know as mandarin suite where its design is more chinese. i am not sure how the other rooms look like but i am very sure that it will be like what their name suggests.
Well i do eremember suites like hollywood suite, malaysian suite, and many more. You know only 5 of us re staying in this suite. glad to be here this year
The view from the room was also facinating. I get the same view when i was in the toilet. Though it was only one day but it was great
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Another award won by my company

Well I had been notified that my boss had been awarded again. This time I am also invited to go to the function at genting highland. Of course for me its an honour and glad to go.

This is my second time attending an award ceremony with my boss. The first was last year when he was awarded as Outstanding entrepreneur and this time it’s the golden bull award.

Anyway this is the 3rd time my boss was awarded the golden bull award. Well I am looking forward to the function. I will take this opportunity to learn. Who knows I might be one of them in the near future
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Days of my wedding

Well it had been a tiring week but its also a wonderful one. I am glad i chose to have the dinner and do the things as customed instead of just travel marriage.

I am also glad that my wife enjoyed it. i am sure she will be posting the wedding blogs very soon. Well she had been very tired with the things we have to do. i will be posting blogs by blogs of how my wedding went. Stay tuned because i am also very tired now. just finish the dinner

:)
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