Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
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How my new home shall be: Paloma Bandar Bukit Raja

As mentioned in previous blog, i will be purchasing a house soon. Lets hope i will get the load i need approved and be able to realize another one of my wife's dreams.

It is developed my Sime Darby and from what i see, it will be a nice place to live in. Near to the house i purchased, there is a man made loke which i think will be a place for me and my family to take a leisure walk.

My house plan is type A1 which will look like the plan below. it has 3+1 bedrooms and its 24x75 which i think is able to sustain a family ofr maximum 4. (Now 3 family members)

I would also like to attach an artist's impression of how my house will look like just to make you drool with sliver



When we were there to make a booking, the number of people waiting to purchase the house was scary. The show room was so filled that i have a hard time walking. Anyway when me and my wife went to see, we dont really have the intention to purchase.

But the more we see it, the higher the impulse he have to purchase. Hopefully we are not purchasing it impulsively. Till date i have not regretted my actions.

NOW GUYS! an advise for all the future married man... Remember to save up some money! without it you would not be able to buy one when the time comes. you will regret not saving enough just like i do. Now my wife & daughter will have to suffer with me. We wont have lots of spare money for entertainment. The lucky thing is my wife dont mind to suffer along with me. Thanks Chloe... Sorry Chermaine!

New Bottle for Chermaine

If anyone asks me "how can i make my daughter drink water? Well the answer is buy her a bottle. Lately my wife and i saw that my daughter loves to drink from our water bottle and so we decided to buy her one which kas a small hole for drinking.

After we done it the result is.... well watch it for yourself. This is take at the very first day

The water sure looks tasty... judging from her expression. Note: its just plain water.


Happy Family bottle. The Fat and tall bottle belongs to papa bear. the shorter one (due to photo shooting effect) belongs to mama bear while the one in front belongs to baby bear. Lets stay healthy and drink more water.


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End of Chinese New Year Celebration

Tomorrow will be the 15th of first month of Chinese Lunar Calender. This also marks the end of the grand celebration of all Chinese people. This really makes me think of how happy days fly by. It seems like just yesterday was the reunion dinner

While i was just glancing through the photo available on my Desktop, i saw pictures that had been taken during the reunion dinner . This triggered my urge to blog after a long time not blogging.


My Family and I were having reunion in V-Garden Restaurant and above is the menu. Everyone was early except for my buggest uncle. No hope every one was waiting for him . He is at least 1 hour late!

Soon Chermaine got restless and her hands became itchy. So she started playing all sorts of things


It was as sweet as sugar when she kissed me. :)


Finally everyone is here and here comes our very first dish. Yee Sang!
So everyone stood and Lou Sang (Direct translation:: MIX raw).
With this i would like to wish me and my family
  1. Step step high rise
  2. Horse Come work done
  3. Dragon horse Sperm God
  4. Year Year got Fish
  5. Year Year got today, life life got this morning
  6. Abundant of wealth
  7. Year Round happiness
  8. The Nation will Prosper
After Dinner! Proceed to my Uncles house and Give Ang Pow. Chermaine had been good enough and "Gong Xi, Gong Xi" To everyone. It really seems like she loved money a lot. She Smiles when she recieved Ang Pow
To make matter worse, She went "WOW!" when one aunt of mine gave her twin packets of red packets.


Anyway Chinese New year had been great this year. I really wished that this will not end but i have to face the fact now. BACK to WORK! BACK to the hassels of the city and pressure for money.
Anyhow we have to grow. My daughter is growing year by year.
GAMBATE! GET MORE MONEY! thats my new year resolution. I need to give my wife and daughter all the best i could afford
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My Playful Daughter

Recently, i notice that my daughter will pose without asking to whenever she sees a camera. Its kinda sweet and cute when we took her pictures. Honesyly lately she had became very playful & naughty. But anyway as a parent i still love her the same My wife told me that we do not have any of her picture this month when she is 1 year 8 months so we quickly took out our camera and started snapping pictures in our room. Chermaine instantly started posing when she saw me holding a camera. here are some great takes... funny how it went...
Unexpectedly i have been a father for 1 year & 8 months now. Thing had been great in my family. Of course we still have our quarrel at times but non of it had affected our relationship. for the past 1 year 8 months, it was filled with joy, laughter, sadness and also tears. You name it we had it.
I was feeling guilty because ever since i got promoted i am often home late and i also went to work early. if i count, i would say i work almost 12 hours daily inclusive of my travelling time. i go to work at 8 am and reach home at about 8 pm.

After a tiring day at work, i will spring back to life when i saw my dauther is not asleep yet. She is one of my motivation to work harder. The only thing in my thought now is to make a better life for Chloe and Chermaine.


I swear i will give everything i can to my wife and daughter. I hope i could really build their dreams with my two hands. I dont mind being tired as long as i could see them smile.
Now seeing pictures like these i know i am building a happy family. I will ensure that this happy times will last a lifetime. Lets hope that blogger.com will never be shut down and it will last forever. This way, all these moments will forever be available to be shared in the future.
Who knows, maybe one day my daughter will read my blog and she will know how much my wife and i love her. My wife? dont worry about it i know she will be reading my blog



Nikon D90 Camera: Completed one of my wife's dream

Its been sometime since my wife wanted a camera. Well i promised her to buy one. Since i used my company camera (D40) i kind of liked taking pictures anyway.

I was today that me and my wife set off with a vision to buy D80. The reason we wanted D80 is because since its been in the market for some time, it could be cheaper. But we end up buying D90.

When i heard the price of the camera, i sank a little. WHY IS it SOOOOOOO expensive? But anyway we bought it in the end. Now i know i will not have much money to spend at least until Chinese New Year.

People might ask why do i still buy if its so expensive? My answer is to get to see a big smile on my wife's face and to fulfill a promise. I think its worth every penny because i will get to take beautiful pictures of my family
Honestly after buying the camera, i reeeaaallllyyy felt the sense of acomplishment. =) Now take a look at the box of the camera. Dont envy me ya! After this you will be able to see beautiful pictures on my blog...

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My Defination of Marriage and Wedding

If you ask me what is the meaning of marriage and wedding well this is my idea. i have been thinking, why is marriage such a beautiful thing. We know we want to get married but how come many couples argue during wedding preperations?

Well thinking back, of course me and my wife have those moments where we argue especially during the preperations. When all is over, i can now be more relax. Well if its so difficult, why trouble yourself in the first place? For me, i can now tell everyone that we've been through the process and leave no regrets.

For me Marriage is...

  1. A promise between the couples
  2. A pact that i will protect my wife
  3. A promise that i will take good care of my wife
  4. An indication that i would like to start a family with my wife
  5. Telling my wife i will grow old with her
  6. I will shoulder all her burden
  7. I will walk the path called "life" with her
  8. telling my wife i will pick her up when she is down
  9. i will be her shoulder where she can cry on
  10. i will be her punching bag if she want something to hit
  11. i will be there for her whenever she needs me
  12. I will be her financial support, moral support or any other support that she needs

A wedding is...

  1. A ceremony that shows my love
  2. An event to tell all bachelors that she's mine
  3. A day to share my joy to everyone who cared
  4. A ceremony where i can thank my in laws for making my wife to a fine women
  5. A day to show my parents that i had grown up
  6. A day to express my gratitude to my parents for all the years they took care of me
  7. A ceremony to ask all guest to be my witness that i keep my promise of our "marriage"(refer to the above meaning of marriage"

Now after this, i will be someone's parent. I will repeat the circle of life and now its my turn to take responsibility for my family. I need to make more money so that i can feed my family, I must live long enough so that my wife dont have to feel the pain of losing her husband and i must be strong enough to block any harm from my family and carry every burden for my family.

To which extend that i can do it? well i know i will try my best and this is a promise of a lifetime. Like what naruto will say, this is my way of ninja. hahahah

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Generous friends at my wedding

Well like i mentioned in earier posts, i had just recently put up a banquet to celebrate my wedding. Well like all Chinese family, Friends and family will help the newly weds by giving ang pow when they turn up for the banquet.

During my banquet, i really saw there are many generous people who actually gave huge Ang Pows to me. Well i am proud to say that i really have a bunch of good friends who will be there for me.

Among the biggest red packet i recieved is from my boss (MD of my current company) which really suprised me. Honestly i never expect it. Next to it is my elder brother's girlfriend's family which is also suprisingly high.

With these money, my parents are able to cover the costs of having this banquet. I am glad that it doesn't increase my debts as my current debts is already very high. Now that its finally over and debts are getting smaller,i really hope that i could get my wife the camera that she had always desired.

The next thing is to return the red packets. Most of my friends are not married yet so when they do, i will have to return the favor by assisting them generously during their wedding.

I simple movie i made for my wedding

Here is a story of me and my wife. This shows how f\time flies and how we grow old to meet each other. Glad that i met her.

Of course there are times where we argue and be angry at each other but there is nothing else we could do but to compromise. If we dont, nothing could work out

When we argue, we usually hate each other for some time (maybe a minute, maybe an hour or more) but someone will have to make the first move to rebuild the relationship. Sometimes its me sometimes its her. BUT always remember to forgive and forget

Well we made it this far so i think its good

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Wedding photo Video

The Photos that me and my wife took a long long time ago. Finally its after wedding and now i can publish it.

2 Days before wedding

Well things had went well as planned. My family and i all bought some new clothes but they have problem matching their cloths. Since its my wedding, they all came to ask advise. i may not be a professional fashion consultant but i acted as one... with my wife of course

Since my family do not have much "Pantang" so we an wer as we wish but i required the guys to wear tie and my sister to wear dress. if funny how everyone co-operated. Wel its nice...

Since my brothers do not have ties, i will have to search through the whole of my wardrobe to match some ties for them

Dad - Black Shirt, Black Jeans, Blue tie, Sports shoes
Elder Bro - Designed on his own
Younger Sister - Dress bought by my wife. and also heels. Its the first time she looks so femine. proud of her.
Younger Brother 1 - White shirt with pink vertical stripes, white slim tie, black slacks.
Younger Brother 2 - Black Shirt and Slacks, Grey Tie.

It was on this day (2 days before the event) that everyone did a fashion show and everyone in the family enjoyed this time.

We als done many ast minute preperations such as getting the bridal gown, communicating to the restaurant on our wants, Sisters to discuss on the ways to trick the brothers.

Well you will feel there are one million and one things that you might have forgotten. But dont sweat it. As and old saying says "The ship will be straight as it nears the dock". Wel its true. Many unplanned unwanted things turn out to be great and we manage to accept it. Or in other occations what we did not plan turns out to be a good thing. Trust me, dont worry too much. It will all end up well
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Days of my wedding

Well it had been a tiring week but its also a wonderful one. I am glad i chose to have the dinner and do the things as customed instead of just travel marriage.

I am also glad that my wife enjoyed it. i am sure she will be posting the wedding blogs very soon. Well she had been very tired with the things we have to do. i will be posting blogs by blogs of how my wedding went. Stay tuned because i am also very tired now. just finish the dinner

:)
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What?!?! Who bully who?

Muahaha... Recently my baby is bullying my wife very often. About 2 days ago while i was driving home, i gave my wife a call to tell her that i am on the way home. Then over the phone, my wife said ok and said she is busy now.

From the phone i can hear my wife and baby laughing very loud. YUP! my baby is tickling my wife. My wife would like to hang up but i refuse. listening to the playing over the phone makes me imagine what is going on there and i feel i am there

Though alone, i am smiling. Even now, while writing this blog i am smiling too. its very sweet i think...

Yesterday my wife and i played my daughter. First i called "Yu Shuen, Hug Papa!" and after she hugged me, my wife called out "Yu Shuen, Hug Mami!" then its my turn to repeat. After a few rounds by baby shouted "Ekk! wou wou wou" while laughing. She gave me and my wife an impression that she was saying "Hoi, leng chai wan ye ah!" (translated: Hoi boy, play me arr?)

Well i enjoyed that moment and i am sure my wife do too.

Well my daughter is growing fast. i need to put in double the effort to earn sufficient money for living. Lets see if i can progress in my career.
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Countdown to my wedding. 3 days to go

Well, its just days away from my wedding and i have a very complicated feeling about it. Mixed feeling i would say. you see i am feeling excited and worried at the same time. I am also nervous but looking forward to it. I had done many things as preperation but at the same time thinks that i might miss out something.

I would like to ask many people if i missed out anything but i have to one to ask. Well now all i could do is have my fingers crossed and hope everything goes smoothly. Its a one in a life time event and i do not wanna spoil it. It will haunt me for the rest of my life.

I am also worried about my wife who dislike attention. she will always run away if she is in the spot light. I made a promise to her that i will hold her hands throughout the event. i will never let go!

This hand of hers shall remain stucked to mine and i all carry all her weight.
I promise! Its a promise of a lifetime without expiry date
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Conned by Wescourt twice on delivery. Very bad experience

It all began last Saturday 12th Sept 2009 when this particular company conned me for the first time. I bought one bedroom set which consist of a bed, a wardrobe, a dressing table and a side table. On the 9th we requested through telephone to ask for a delivery on 12th regardless of the time. Then on the tenth, my wife followed up and then the delivery is confirmed

On the 11th night, my wife and I started to remove all our clothes from our existing wardrobe and on the 12th morning, we started waiting because they have not confirmed a time. At about 11am, we called and this is our conversation.

Us: Hello Zhong, This is Kenny. What time will our furniture arrived?
Zhong: Kenny… oh There will be no delivery today. We tried to call to confirm but there was some problem
Us: What problem? I thought we confirmed that there will be a delivery today?
Zhong: Yesterday I called and an uncle picked up the phone. When I asked about Kenny, he mentioned that Kenny? Kenny went to London already. That uncle sounds like a person who can only speak English and Hokkien.
Us: Huh?! Impossible. We are the one holding the phone. Impossible someone else answer
Zhong: But it’s the fact
Us: Ok I don’t care who answered the phone but I need delivery to be done today
Zhong: Ok I will arrange for you. Call you back before 3pm

At 4pm Zhong did not call back and I called back

Us: Hello Zhong, I thought you are supposed to call back?
Zhong: oh, the delivery wasn`t able to be arranged
Us: Huh, still you need to tell me right?
Zhong: …
Us: ok now what can I do? When is the earliest for delivery? Now that it came to this situation, I would like you to delivery on weekdays after 6 can this be done?
Zhong: Wednesday is the soonest
Us: I want it on Tuesday
Zhong: I need to arrange but I will call to confirm with you
Us: Ok but make sure you call me. Now its Chinese calendar july so there are lots of ghost
Zhong: Yup…

Later…
Zhong: Hello Kenny. Delivery confirmed on Tusday after 6. My HQ will call to confirm again
Us: ok Thanks

14th morning.

Girl: Hello is this xxx xxxx Yeong? I am from westcourt and would like to confirm your delivery of a bedroom set on Tuesday. The delivery will be on the morning 10am.
Me: Huh?!?!? Hello, the delivery is supposed to be evening after six. I am working so no one will be there to collect the delivery
Girl: But you place is in Klang so you are the first place to go. Our office is in Sg buloh. So you must collect earlier
Me: You don’t understand what I said earlier? I am working. Even if you send no one will be there to collect. How are you going to deliver?
Girl: oh ok, I will call you back.

14th night 8pm
Girl: Mr Lee your delivery will be between 4pm to 6pm tomorrow. Is it ok?
Me: Hey don’t you understand? I am working. We can only collect after 6pm.
Girl: Ya I know, although I put it as 4pm but we will usually be late. Don’t worry, we will call you before coming
Me: Even if you called, and I am not home, who is going to deliver?
Girl: its ok. It will arrive after 6pm
Me: ok

Finally the time had arrived. Since my wife could slack off work, she waited at home at 4pm and called Zhong to tell him that delivery could be done anytime now. Zhong’s answer is “he is on the way”

At 5pm, my wife called again and the answer is “the lorry is already at klang and will reach you soon after he is done with one delivery”

At 5:30 pm my wife called again and the answer is “ The lorry driver ask not to hurry him because he is also working now”

6.15 pm I called and he said “he is reaching you and will give you a call before coming”. I asked to give a time and Zhong said “7.15pm”

I reached home at 7.30pm and went to take my dinner. At 8pm, I called and this is our conversation
Me: Hello Zhong, you told my wife on the way since 4pm. With 4 hours you can reach penang already
Zhong: He have not arrived? Well I will have to kill him. I will call you back in 5 minutes

10 minutes later I called back at least 5 time but no answer. Then later someone else called me

Guy: Hello I would like to make a delivery to you and may I know where is your house?
Me: oh ok I am waiting for you. What time can you arrive?
Guy: about 8.30pm. I am now in Shah Alam
Me: ok which way are you coming?
Guy: Kesas
Me: explained the route…

At 8.30pm I called back the driver
Me: Where are you now?
Guy: near the police station which is beside the bomba
Me: I thought you are coming from Kesas?
Guy: oh we decided to use federal instead
Me: ok

I told my wife they are reaching and we waited downstairs. 20 minutes later they arrived and we are very happy. There is nothing but smiles on my face then soon my wife noticed something… the set is all brown and we ordered all white.

Immediately I called Zhong on his mobile but he never pick up. I called at least more than 10 times. I rejected all the delivery and asked them to take all back except a mattress since its ok.

After that, my wife and I went straight to Westcourt Bukit tinggi and reason with Zhong. After making tons of noises there, Zhong decided to replace our set and the delivery will be made after Raya

During our reasoning, Zhong even tested us if we are lying. He let us choose the colours and asked which colour of white is it? One if the white is just launched recently so it’s a trap. Luckily I still remember the colour or else he might say we are lying.

Now I am still for a confirm delivery date of my actual bedroom set. Anyway I am running out of time since my wedding is just 2 weeks away.

If you guy did but furniture from the above mentioned shop, do remember to check all the invoices and everything. The important thing is to follow up and remember what you said with them and also what they said to you. Take my experience and advice. It always better safe than sorry

Don’t be like me now my floor is my wardrobe and my bed. Luckily I did not remove my mattress. All my things are on the floor. My baby’s bed is also my wardrobe and my laundry basket is used to keep my other stuffs. My knapsack is used to keep Chermaine’s hanky and also my bed sheets. Chermaine’s bath tub is used to keep my stuffs too. It’s really a pain at the eye to see such pathetic bedroom. Damn I am angry!
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Doing laundry could never feel better than this

All my life, i never like doing laundry but this day is special. My wife and baby was playing at the balcony while i was hanging my clothes. Its filled with fun when my baby walked to help me... Although she is making things worse for me
LOOK she can walk with her eyes closed?? hahahah

What is life like after marriage?

I simple sentence to describe the life is " Sometimes heaven, Sometimes Hell"

You might ask when is it heaven? Well lets talk about the good thing first. Here is a very good scenario to describe. You arrive home after a shitty day at work. The moment you step out of your car, you heard a sweet sound calling "Ah Pa!". when you look at your door, there you have it! you loved ones (Your Wife, Your Daughter) standing there waiting for the moment you step home. Its a moment money cant buy.

When is it hell? The bad side? Not really something you would like to share but just to give you bachelors out there something to be prepared. Here's a scenario. You return home after a shitty day and the moment you reach home, Your wife and daughter is at home and your baby is crying. The next moment you realised that you baby had just pooed and will have to change diapers. Then you realized that there are laundries that needs to be done and there are tons of office work that due tomorrow.

You see its not always bad. I feel happy about my married life all the time and loved it. Here is a list of why do i like my married life
  1. When you feel sad you have your wife to share
  2. When you feel sad you baby come and sayang you
  3. When you feel demotivated you have your commitment to push you through shitty times
  4. You have something to look forward to everytime the office hours ends
  5. when you go shopping with your family, you wont get bored because the baby can keep you busy
  6. Your baby makes you smile
  7. Your wife help you to think things through
  8. Every now and then your wife will bake a cake and your family can share
  9. When you meet with your friends, you can bring your wife out and be proud about it
  10. Whenever people says you baby is cute you are proud. (although they dont really mean it)
  11. You baby will do funny things that makes you happy and angry at the same time. (Example: Your baby just spilled powder on the floor but when you scold her she gives you a sweet smile and wave her hands like saying hello"
  12. Your baby can give you wife a good massage
  13. You have a purpose for every ringgit you earn
  14. you will be more stable and not impulsive when you make decision
  15. You are known as the man of the house

This time i will just stop at 15. maybe next time i will share more when i have the time to blog. Stay tuned for my next episode.

Oh ya. One more good thing is that you baby is the cure to all your sadness. It is also the factor for your mood of the day. If you baby destroy you morning, your day will be like shit. If she gives you a very good morning, then i am sure you will be energetic for the rest of the day

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Help me select marriage songs!

Dear readers,

Now is the time that you guys help me out. Please contribute your ideas because i would like to select suitable english songs for my wedding dinner. Please if everyone help out i will be able to finish all these in no time at all


Rules and regulations:
  1. Must be love songs
  2. Nothing in the songs mentioned about heartbreak or losing someone
  3. Please write on comments so that in the future people can learn from me too
  4. Please do not repeat what others had already mentioned
  5. There is nothing that you will win if you help out. Just sincere caring and sharing. BUT you will be able to get lots of thanks from me and also people who are getting married and need somtthing like mine. :0)

Some songs that i thought of

  1. Wet wet wet - love is all around
  2. donno who sing - cant take my eyes off you
  3. Josie marie chan - beautiful girl
  4. Five - Until the time is through
  5. Robbie williams - Better man
  6. Minnie riperton - Loving you
  7. Nsync - This i promise you
  8. Richard Marx - Right here waiting
  9. Savage garden - Truly madly deeply
  10. Savage garden - I knew i loved you
  11. Diana ross & lionel richie - Endless love
  12. MLTR - Take me to your heart
  13. MLTR - You took my heart away
  14. MLTR - Paint my love
  15. Air Supply - Nothing gonna change my love for you
  16. All 4 one - I swear
  17. All 4 one - I can love you like that
  18. Nu flavor - heaven
  19. 98 degrees - I do
  20. 98 degrees - Its all because of you
  21. Berlin - take my breath away
  22. Alladin - a whole new world
  23. Celine dion - beauty and the beast

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