You know blogging about sex will always bring traffic to your blog. This is not a statement that I made up but its supported with documents. Try dailychilli for example. Their write-ups about sex have very huge feedbacks.
Anyway what I am more amaze is how Malaysians react to such write-ups. You see the Malaysian English is more sophisticated compared to normal English. We have multi-racial combinations towards the comments and it really makes the comments worth reading.
Funny in one sense but some are also true. The commenter really made my day. I was alone at my cubicle reading those comments and started laughing about all the comments. That had caused me to comment as well.
I read several write-ups but what really captured my attention is their write-up about “Sex twice a week keeps men healthier” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1785-sex-twice-a-week-keeps-men-healthier), “10 places where women want to be touched” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/554-10-places-to-touch-a-women ), and “Why Should you have sex everyday” (http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1084-why-you-should-have-sex-everyday ). These are evidence that blogging about sex will increase traffics. Hey, today these are the most emailed article leh!
The write-up is nothing uncommon. The commenter are more lively. The usage of Malaysia English is very much not in the dictionaries. It’s a mixure of Chinese Dialects, Malay words and some metaphors that only Malaysian will understand.
Anyway I think I should write more about sex since its getting more attention. Maybe this way, I would get more traffic to my blog?
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The increase of “Buang Anak” cases
*** If you will feel offended about the topic, please do not read on***
Have you every wondered why people are willing to conduct such inhumane task such as killing their baby or just let them rot by the streets. These babies are innocent and they have done nothing wrong to deserve such inhumane acts.
As a father, I seriously feel that they are losing the chance of seeing their baby grow. Surely there are times when you feel that they are a nuisance but there are also times where you are glad to have them.
Anyway I had been thinking what are the reasons that caused these parents to do so? Culture? Social pressure? Money? Well you should think of the side effects when you do not conduct safe sex. Regardless what the reasons are, throwing your babies are always not an option.
I am not only against buang anak. I am also against abortion. I knew that recently Malaysia had developed some sites to allow parents to pass their babies to safe hands. Though you might never see your baby again but at least you can ensure that they will be given a second chance to live regardless of what kind of life they might have. This option is always better than losing the chance at all.
I am happy having my baby to disturb my sleep and having my baby to stop me from smoking. Although its irritating but if you think back its kind of sweet when she suddenly run to your shoulders and hug you. When I am down, she sits patiently next to me and patting my head as if I am the baby and she is my mother.
If I had threw her away, I would never have such experience. Now even the thought of losing her hurts me so much that I would shed a tear.
One thing for sure is there had been increase in regards to buang anak cases and abortion cases. Will harsh sentence in terms of law help the decrease? I don’t think so. Just take a look at our drug trafficking sentence which is many times harsher and scarier but yet it still happens.
We need to find the root cause for the problem. From my opinion, it may be due to social pressure which caused it. These parents do not want to be the laughing stock of the public where some auntie on the streets will look at them and pointing their fingers to them and say all kinds of words.
Another cause of the problem might also be due to religion. I had been observing some people who laugh at people who skipped fasting during the fasting months. You see I don’t see the problem of the person who skipped fasting because he/she is working in an environment which hinders him/her from fasting. Example labourer, chef or iron casting industry. If they do not eat, they will die… seriously. By the way, what happens if they don’t fast? If the person don’t feel like fasting, the sin will be on them not you. Why bother and laugh at people? My point is, if someone decided to give birth without any marriage, so be it. If you laugh at them, you are enticing them to do a bigger sin such as buang anak or abortion.
Other reason which I could think of is financial problem. Parents might be too poor to sustain the life of their baby. Therefore I support the government’s move to allow parents to put their baby in those shelters. I am sure someone will be willing to adopt them or even if they are not adopted, these babies could contribute or payback their debts to the shelter by working and support the shelter which they grew up in. Of course parent’s details should be confidential to avoid future problems
The best way is always be responsible. Every action will have a chain of reactions. Anyway I do not have any authority to comment on the topic. I just felt that its wrong to do so and so just wanna blog about it. Please do not feel offended about what I say. Just some comment.
Have you every wondered why people are willing to conduct such inhumane task such as killing their baby or just let them rot by the streets. These babies are innocent and they have done nothing wrong to deserve such inhumane acts.
As a father, I seriously feel that they are losing the chance of seeing their baby grow. Surely there are times when you feel that they are a nuisance but there are also times where you are glad to have them.
Anyway I had been thinking what are the reasons that caused these parents to do so? Culture? Social pressure? Money? Well you should think of the side effects when you do not conduct safe sex. Regardless what the reasons are, throwing your babies are always not an option.
I am not only against buang anak. I am also against abortion. I knew that recently Malaysia had developed some sites to allow parents to pass their babies to safe hands. Though you might never see your baby again but at least you can ensure that they will be given a second chance to live regardless of what kind of life they might have. This option is always better than losing the chance at all.
I am happy having my baby to disturb my sleep and having my baby to stop me from smoking. Although its irritating but if you think back its kind of sweet when she suddenly run to your shoulders and hug you. When I am down, she sits patiently next to me and patting my head as if I am the baby and she is my mother.
If I had threw her away, I would never have such experience. Now even the thought of losing her hurts me so much that I would shed a tear.
One thing for sure is there had been increase in regards to buang anak cases and abortion cases. Will harsh sentence in terms of law help the decrease? I don’t think so. Just take a look at our drug trafficking sentence which is many times harsher and scarier but yet it still happens.
We need to find the root cause for the problem. From my opinion, it may be due to social pressure which caused it. These parents do not want to be the laughing stock of the public where some auntie on the streets will look at them and pointing their fingers to them and say all kinds of words.
Another cause of the problem might also be due to religion. I had been observing some people who laugh at people who skipped fasting during the fasting months. You see I don’t see the problem of the person who skipped fasting because he/she is working in an environment which hinders him/her from fasting. Example labourer, chef or iron casting industry. If they do not eat, they will die… seriously. By the way, what happens if they don’t fast? If the person don’t feel like fasting, the sin will be on them not you. Why bother and laugh at people? My point is, if someone decided to give birth without any marriage, so be it. If you laugh at them, you are enticing them to do a bigger sin such as buang anak or abortion.
Other reason which I could think of is financial problem. Parents might be too poor to sustain the life of their baby. Therefore I support the government’s move to allow parents to put their baby in those shelters. I am sure someone will be willing to adopt them or even if they are not adopted, these babies could contribute or payback their debts to the shelter by working and support the shelter which they grew up in. Of course parent’s details should be confidential to avoid future problems
The best way is always be responsible. Every action will have a chain of reactions. Anyway I do not have any authority to comment on the topic. I just felt that its wrong to do so and so just wanna blog about it. Please do not feel offended about what I say. Just some comment.
Personality test result: ENFP
I had recently took a test online in regards to my personality. Personalities will often change and so I thought its time to take this test again. In the past I often take DISC (PPA) to see who am i. Today I took The Keirsey Personality Zone. Below is a description of my personality. The test shows that I am Idealist, Champion category.
Like the other Idealists, Champions are rather rare, say two or three percent of the population, but even more than the others they consider intense emotional experiences as being vital to a full life. Champions have a wide range and variety of emotions, and a great passion for novelty. They see life as an exciting drama, pregnant with possibilities for both good and evil, and they want to experience all the meaningful events and fascinating people in the world. The most outgoing of the Idealists, Champions often can't wait to tell others of their extraordinary experiences. Champions can be tireless in talking with others, like fountains that bubble and splash, spilling over their own words to get it all out. And usually this is not simple storytelling; Champions often speak (or write) in the hope of revealing some truth about human experience, or of motivating others with their powerful convictions. Their strong drive to speak out on issues and events, along with their boundless enthusiasm and natural talent with language, makes them the most vivacious and inspiring of all the types.
Fiercely individualistic, Champions strive toward a kind of personal authenticity, and this intention always to be themselves is usually quite attractive to others. At the same time, Champions have outstanding intuitive powers and can tell what is going on inside of others, reading hidden emotions and giving special significance to words or actions. In fact, Champions are constantly scanning the social environment, and no intriguing character or silent motive is likely to escape their attention. Far more than the other Idealists, Champions are keen and probing observers of the people around them, and are capable of intense concentration on another individual. Their attention is rarely passive or casual. On the contrary, Champions tend to be extra sensitive and alert, always ready for emergencies, always on the lookout for what's possible.
Champions are good with people and usually have a wide range of personal relationships. They are warm and full of energy with their friends. They are likable and at ease with colleagues, and handle their employees or students with great skill. They are good in public and on the telephone, and are so spontaneous and dramatic that others love to be in their company. Champions are positive, exuberant people, and often their confidence in the goodness of life and of human nature makes good things happen.
Joan Baez, Phil Donahue, Paul Robeson, Bill Moyer, Elizibeth Cady Stanton, Joeseph Campbell, Edith Wharton, Sargent Shriver, Charles Dickens, and Upton Sinclair are examples of Idealist Champions
Test webpage: http://www.keirsey.com/
Like the other Idealists, Champions are rather rare, say two or three percent of the population, but even more than the others they consider intense emotional experiences as being vital to a full life. Champions have a wide range and variety of emotions, and a great passion for novelty. They see life as an exciting drama, pregnant with possibilities for both good and evil, and they want to experience all the meaningful events and fascinating people in the world. The most outgoing of the Idealists, Champions often can't wait to tell others of their extraordinary experiences. Champions can be tireless in talking with others, like fountains that bubble and splash, spilling over their own words to get it all out. And usually this is not simple storytelling; Champions often speak (or write) in the hope of revealing some truth about human experience, or of motivating others with their powerful convictions. Their strong drive to speak out on issues and events, along with their boundless enthusiasm and natural talent with language, makes them the most vivacious and inspiring of all the types.
Fiercely individualistic, Champions strive toward a kind of personal authenticity, and this intention always to be themselves is usually quite attractive to others. At the same time, Champions have outstanding intuitive powers and can tell what is going on inside of others, reading hidden emotions and giving special significance to words or actions. In fact, Champions are constantly scanning the social environment, and no intriguing character or silent motive is likely to escape their attention. Far more than the other Idealists, Champions are keen and probing observers of the people around them, and are capable of intense concentration on another individual. Their attention is rarely passive or casual. On the contrary, Champions tend to be extra sensitive and alert, always ready for emergencies, always on the lookout for what's possible.
Champions are good with people and usually have a wide range of personal relationships. They are warm and full of energy with their friends. They are likable and at ease with colleagues, and handle their employees or students with great skill. They are good in public and on the telephone, and are so spontaneous and dramatic that others love to be in their company. Champions are positive, exuberant people, and often their confidence in the goodness of life and of human nature makes good things happen.
Joan Baez, Phil Donahue, Paul Robeson, Bill Moyer, Elizibeth Cady Stanton, Joeseph Campbell, Edith Wharton, Sargent Shriver, Charles Dickens, and Upton Sinclair are examples of Idealist Champions
Test webpage: http://www.keirsey.com/
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Kenny
Peacefully alone… Thinking about life
Like many would think, being left alone is a bad thing. For me, I am enjoying it. Its been 5 years since I last being left alone to do my own things. Today I am glad that it is my turn to have such opportunity.
I came to work and had lots of time to stay put and do nothing. Though some people will come and meet me from time to time but I am not needed in any meetings. I do not require to handle projects and I don’t use much brain power.
All I have to do now is to settle whatever tasks which is incomplete. I am also required to handover my uncompleted businesses to my fellow colleagues… (poor people). Lol
It is a good day. I woke up nicely this morning and feel glad I am still alive… Despite the fact my daughter woke me up 4 times for milk yesterday. Even though I woke up late, I did not rush to work and the traffic was not congested at all. I arrive 2 minutes late. I also have a nice good morning kiss from my wife and daughter…
When I left home, my daughter said bye bye to me. When I reached office few colleagues said good morning to me and until not anyone bothered me for big problems. It is a great day.
After years of struggling, I finally found peace at workplace. Maybe because there are no new tasks that would upset my plans. I am really getting old fast. I honestly feel like an old man looking for peace at mind.
I had been wondering what will be waiting for me at the new company? Like their industrial name describes Fast Moving Consumer Goods I am sure this organization will surely work at high pace and will not have any time to think and look for peace. Anyway, the pay is good and if I am busy, my wife & daughter could have a better life. Its is definitely worth it.
I had realized few of my wife’s dreams but I know I will not realize more than this if I continued getting the petty salary I am getting. If this risk or big hop means more joy, more happiness for my family I don’t care if it brings me more stress.
People loves to say, money is not everything but without money you cant do anything. Money cant buy happiness I know, but without money you cant buy anything but suffering. My wife and I don’t wish for a very wealthy life but to a minimum we must have the capability to enjoy life such as traveling. If I spend every penny I earn everyday, we will never have such life.
I hope I can allow my wife to retire early and live life as a housewife. I hope she can enjoy her life and stressless. I can bear all her burden. Better 1 man sorrow than 1 family sorrow. I cant pluck the moon from the sky for her but at least I could put the reflection of the moon on her palm. Hope it will be as good as having the moon on her hand.
Looking forward to be home with her tonight. I am also looking forward for a nice dinner at Fairies Café with my boys Au Yeong & Nic. They have been very supportive subordinates and very good friends of mine.
Just like how Jason & Adrian treated me as a child, I take them like my child. To goorm them for better future just like Jason & Adrian did. Not to mention Joanne, Frances, Sally and other leaders who had once lead me before
I came to work and had lots of time to stay put and do nothing. Though some people will come and meet me from time to time but I am not needed in any meetings. I do not require to handle projects and I don’t use much brain power.
All I have to do now is to settle whatever tasks which is incomplete. I am also required to handover my uncompleted businesses to my fellow colleagues… (poor people). Lol
It is a good day. I woke up nicely this morning and feel glad I am still alive… Despite the fact my daughter woke me up 4 times for milk yesterday. Even though I woke up late, I did not rush to work and the traffic was not congested at all. I arrive 2 minutes late. I also have a nice good morning kiss from my wife and daughter…
When I left home, my daughter said bye bye to me. When I reached office few colleagues said good morning to me and until not anyone bothered me for big problems. It is a great day.
After years of struggling, I finally found peace at workplace. Maybe because there are no new tasks that would upset my plans. I am really getting old fast. I honestly feel like an old man looking for peace at mind.
I had been wondering what will be waiting for me at the new company? Like their industrial name describes Fast Moving Consumer Goods I am sure this organization will surely work at high pace and will not have any time to think and look for peace. Anyway, the pay is good and if I am busy, my wife & daughter could have a better life. Its is definitely worth it.
I had realized few of my wife’s dreams but I know I will not realize more than this if I continued getting the petty salary I am getting. If this risk or big hop means more joy, more happiness for my family I don’t care if it brings me more stress.
People loves to say, money is not everything but without money you cant do anything. Money cant buy happiness I know, but without money you cant buy anything but suffering. My wife and I don’t wish for a very wealthy life but to a minimum we must have the capability to enjoy life such as traveling. If I spend every penny I earn everyday, we will never have such life.
I hope I can allow my wife to retire early and live life as a housewife. I hope she can enjoy her life and stressless. I can bear all her burden. Better 1 man sorrow than 1 family sorrow. I cant pluck the moon from the sky for her but at least I could put the reflection of the moon on her palm. Hope it will be as good as having the moon on her hand.
Looking forward to be home with her tonight. I am also looking forward for a nice dinner at Fairies Café with my boys Au Yeong & Nic. They have been very supportive subordinates and very good friends of mine.
Just like how Jason & Adrian treated me as a child, I take them like my child. To goorm them for better future just like Jason & Adrian did. Not to mention Joanne, Frances, Sally and other leaders who had once lead me before
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Kenny
A new Chapter…
Not long later a new chapter of my life shall begin. I know I will start this story with fear and anxiousness but I must face it strong. Changes are always scary but if there are no changes, the world will never be better. Like Einstein once said, “if you do the same thing in the same way and the same procedure, don’t expect different result”.
Now for those who dare to dream are the crafters of the world tomorrow. It was thanks to those dreamers in the past that today we are able to fly. Now my contribution for the world may be small but if everyone contributes a little, it will eventually become a big thing.
Now, I had shared this story to some of my past superiors and they all gave me some advice. Maybe they will always treat me like a child. Like a father taking good care of their child. Regardless how old the child grown, they will always be the father’s child. Good friends like them are hard to come by. They always offer knowledge and advice to me like a father will.
Past superiors are the crafters of who I am today. My gratitude to them will never end. In return, I would like to be a father to someone else too. With that in mind, I will always treat my Executives as my child. Its time for me to craft others like how my superiors crafted me in the past.
Its time now, for my turn to take risks. Joining this new company I truly a challenge for me. I do not have the skills and knowledge in this new environment. I hope I could cope with the change and I am sure my wife & daughter have their fingers crossed and hope for the best for me. I must never let them down.
This is another step for me to take to lead a better life for my family. Regardless of what might happen, let it happen to me and not my family. Now I am closer to my target. I had set for myself to be at manager level at age of 27 since college. Now I am 27 but still at Asst. Manager level (a little out of my target). Next month I will achieve my target. Now I need a higher target than this for my next conquest.
I need to seriously think about my target for the future. What must I achieve when I am 35? What must I accomplish by the age of 40? I don’t know what I want now but I will think about it. At the mean time, just focus on climbing and be greedy
Now for those who dare to dream are the crafters of the world tomorrow. It was thanks to those dreamers in the past that today we are able to fly. Now my contribution for the world may be small but if everyone contributes a little, it will eventually become a big thing.
Now, I had shared this story to some of my past superiors and they all gave me some advice. Maybe they will always treat me like a child. Like a father taking good care of their child. Regardless how old the child grown, they will always be the father’s child. Good friends like them are hard to come by. They always offer knowledge and advice to me like a father will.
Past superiors are the crafters of who I am today. My gratitude to them will never end. In return, I would like to be a father to someone else too. With that in mind, I will always treat my Executives as my child. Its time for me to craft others like how my superiors crafted me in the past.
Its time now, for my turn to take risks. Joining this new company I truly a challenge for me. I do not have the skills and knowledge in this new environment. I hope I could cope with the change and I am sure my wife & daughter have their fingers crossed and hope for the best for me. I must never let them down.
This is another step for me to take to lead a better life for my family. Regardless of what might happen, let it happen to me and not my family. Now I am closer to my target. I had set for myself to be at manager level at age of 27 since college. Now I am 27 but still at Asst. Manager level (a little out of my target). Next month I will achieve my target. Now I need a higher target than this for my next conquest.
I need to seriously think about my target for the future. What must I achieve when I am 35? What must I accomplish by the age of 40? I don’t know what I want now but I will think about it. At the mean time, just focus on climbing and be greedy
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Kenny
Warehouse Sale?!? Die
Make it simple...
My company organized warehouse sale... All employees to attend!
Most employees will be there 4 days straight... i am one of them!
Now its already Day 3... My legs are not mine...
Anyway had something motivated me... wanna know? not now... share later
My company organized warehouse sale... All employees to attend!
Most employees will be there 4 days straight... i am one of them!
Now its already Day 3... My legs are not mine...
Anyway had something motivated me... wanna know? not now... share later
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Kenny
RM 7 Karaoke! Sing for 7 hours! Can you believe it?
During my trip back to my wife’s hometown, My in laws decided to go for a karaoke session in Kuching. What surprised me is the price for karaoke”ing”. With just RM 7 you can sing for 7 whole hours!
There is no catch! All you have to do is buy a drink and you can sing for 7 hours. Whats worse, its on weekend (Saturday). Time allocated = 12pm – 7pm.
Anyway there are some drawbacks in the karaoke. There is no food served. Even if u have the money to pay, you still cant buy them there. Well since you are there for 7 hours definitely you will get hungry.
Before that, my sister in law already bought packets of junk food. Guess the price… Mr Potato which might cost you RM 3 costs RM 5 each pack. In other words you only get Mr potato for the price of Chicken rice. Not worth it.
There is a sign saying no outside food allowed so I asked the waiters I am hungry and you don’t sell food. What can you do for me? Well they allowed me to bring in food later. I got a chicken rice for my sister in law (guess what its only cost me RM 4.50. RM 0.50 cheaper than Mr Potato). I also bought 2 Loh mai kai RM 2.50 each and 4 siew mai RM0.50 each. All these are definitely better than buying MR Potato in the karaoke
At the end of the session, its only RM 62.00 for the whole session for 6 drinks and one jug of Sprite. For this amount, I could only go Red Box for 2 pax for 3 to 4 hours. I think the next time I get back to my in laws house I will definitely visit this place again. This way I can sing my lungs out and release all the stress.
Anyway its kinda pressure as all my sister in laws could read Chinese. When I sing Chinese songs I feel pressured (because I might sing the wrong words since I memorize them)
As a conclusion, its still worth it. I knew I enjoyed and my daughter also had a great time with all the junks she gets to eat. Since its entertainment session I thought its ok for her to enjoy junks as well. She had been a good girl throughout the whole session. =)
There is no catch! All you have to do is buy a drink and you can sing for 7 hours. Whats worse, its on weekend (Saturday). Time allocated = 12pm – 7pm.
Anyway there are some drawbacks in the karaoke. There is no food served. Even if u have the money to pay, you still cant buy them there. Well since you are there for 7 hours definitely you will get hungry.
Before that, my sister in law already bought packets of junk food. Guess the price… Mr Potato which might cost you RM 3 costs RM 5 each pack. In other words you only get Mr potato for the price of Chicken rice. Not worth it.
There is a sign saying no outside food allowed so I asked the waiters I am hungry and you don’t sell food. What can you do for me? Well they allowed me to bring in food later. I got a chicken rice for my sister in law (guess what its only cost me RM 4.50. RM 0.50 cheaper than Mr Potato). I also bought 2 Loh mai kai RM 2.50 each and 4 siew mai RM0.50 each. All these are definitely better than buying MR Potato in the karaoke
At the end of the session, its only RM 62.00 for the whole session for 6 drinks and one jug of Sprite. For this amount, I could only go Red Box for 2 pax for 3 to 4 hours. I think the next time I get back to my in laws house I will definitely visit this place again. This way I can sing my lungs out and release all the stress.
Anyway its kinda pressure as all my sister in laws could read Chinese. When I sing Chinese songs I feel pressured (because I might sing the wrong words since I memorize them)
As a conclusion, its still worth it. I knew I enjoyed and my daughter also had a great time with all the junks she gets to eat. Since its entertainment session I thought its ok for her to enjoy junks as well. She had been a good girl throughout the whole session. =)
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Kenny
First day after a week of holiday
Today is the first day I reported to work after a week of holiday. It was great but the side effect is: Eyes are heavy, legs are lazy but the body is energetic, and the brain is processing fast.
Anyway day 1 of work is always scary. I do not know what happen last week. Many things changed since a week ago. All kinds of problems arises and I am afraid to go to work.
The fact is after a week I have close to 200 mails to read, tons of meeting to attend and million of shits to clear. It will be a long day today. Pick up your head and face the challenges that are coming.
Today’s Agenda:
1. Clear Shits
2. Meeting
3. Meeting
4. More meeting
Face the fact! That’s job!
Anyway day 1 of work is always scary. I do not know what happen last week. Many things changed since a week ago. All kinds of problems arises and I am afraid to go to work.
The fact is after a week I have close to 200 mails to read, tons of meeting to attend and million of shits to clear. It will be a long day today. Pick up your head and face the challenges that are coming.
Today’s Agenda:
1. Clear Shits
2. Meeting
3. Meeting
4. More meeting
Face the fact! That’s job!
Toilet training failure
It’s a sad thing to happen when my daughter failed toilet training. Yesterday, I was home earlier than usual and my wife decided to toilet train her yesterday. Therefore, we decided not to let her wear diapers and kept on reminded her that if she needs to pee, tell us.
It was about 7pm when I got home. At about 7.30pm, she peed without letting us know and so we will have to change for her. It was still early to change her to pyjamas and so we continued not to wear diapers for her.
Again we kept remaining her about telling us when she needs to pee. After dinner, we let her play for a little longer and at about 8.30, we saw some liquid coming out from her. Yup, she peed without warning again. This time it came with a big bad odor and as my wife checked, its certified! The pee pee came along with a poo poo.
My wife wanted me to wash for her but due to laziness, I declined. As she carried my daughter to the toilet I heard a sound “PHIAK” and there it is stuck on the floor. A big bad chocolate ice cream. I cant stop myself from shouting at my wife “Hello, how you carry her? See what’s on the floor!”
What happens next? Guess who will have to clean up the mess? Seriously I felt that my wife is taking revenge for my laziness. (But actually I know it’s an accident). Anyway my wife and I can’t stop laughing about it. As I was writing this blog, I can’t stop smiling as I think about the chocolate ice cream.
Anyway the morale of the story is… GUYS don’t be lazy. Instead of cleaning my daughter’s butt, I have to pick up the ice cream with nothing but a piece of tissue in between. And also mop the floor. Funny how things go.
More toilet training? Well I think I will pass that. Let her wear diapers all the time until she is shy enough to remove it. (I talk the talk but I think I will still toilet train her)
It was about 7pm when I got home. At about 7.30pm, she peed without letting us know and so we will have to change for her. It was still early to change her to pyjamas and so we continued not to wear diapers for her.
Again we kept remaining her about telling us when she needs to pee. After dinner, we let her play for a little longer and at about 8.30, we saw some liquid coming out from her. Yup, she peed without warning again. This time it came with a big bad odor and as my wife checked, its certified! The pee pee came along with a poo poo.
My wife wanted me to wash for her but due to laziness, I declined. As she carried my daughter to the toilet I heard a sound “PHIAK” and there it is stuck on the floor. A big bad chocolate ice cream. I cant stop myself from shouting at my wife “Hello, how you carry her? See what’s on the floor!”
What happens next? Guess who will have to clean up the mess? Seriously I felt that my wife is taking revenge for my laziness. (But actually I know it’s an accident). Anyway my wife and I can’t stop laughing about it. As I was writing this blog, I can’t stop smiling as I think about the chocolate ice cream.
Anyway the morale of the story is… GUYS don’t be lazy. Instead of cleaning my daughter’s butt, I have to pick up the ice cream with nothing but a piece of tissue in between. And also mop the floor. Funny how things go.
More toilet training? Well I think I will pass that. Let her wear diapers all the time until she is shy enough to remove it. (I talk the talk but I think I will still toilet train her)
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Kenny
All about condoms
For a start, some people had been asking me where is the Durex advert that I had been saying? Well, its not always there. The advert sometime there and sometimes not, just like Chipsmore.
Anyway back to my topic, I’ve checked wikipedia regarding condoms and to my surprise, it’s a whole lot of information. Who would have guessed that condoms could be used in many ways and so much history in it.
Lets start with some background of the subject. Condoms have histories dated back over 4 centuries ago. The most basic use of it is for pregnancy prevention and also to avoid STD (sexually transmitted disease). Well until here most of us might have knew about it. Its waterproof, durable and elastic. I am sure you knew it too.
The most common material used is latex but some are made from polyurethane, polyisoprene, or lamb intestine. Some history check also shows that in the ancient days, the Chinese used oiled silk paper as condom (glans: a device only covers the top of the penis) or lamb intestine. (Yucks, imagine your sex partner is also doing it with a lamb intestine). In japan, tortoise shell and animal horn is also used. (I could not imagine whether your partner is having sex with you or the animal horn and shell. They are so hard and you might not feel anything.)
Despite the benefit of birth control and avoiding STD, some religion were against the use of condoms. They believe that its immoral to use them. Some also believes that its good to have STD around because it’s the karma for random sex.
Over the years, condoms had been improved in many ways. Today, condoms are more reliable, and also thinner (you can feel more now!)
In March 2003, Switzerland announced that they will produce smaller condoms called “hotshot” specially made for boys aged 12 – 14 years old. (huh, sex at 12? Lucky boys)
Types of Condom:
1) Latex (rubber)
- Most common
- Elastic
- ISO (ISO 4074 Natural latex rubber condoms)
- Used with lubricants ; reduces rubber elasticity
- With Vytex (to remove 90% of proteins responsible for allergy reactions)
2) Synthetic (non-rubber man made)
- Commonly made from polyurethane.
- Other materials: AT-10 resin, polyisoprene
- Better than latex due to better heat conduct, less sensitive with temperature, longer shelf-life, less allergenic, does
not have odor, no protein
- Cons compared to latex: less elastic (more likely to slip & break), more expensive
3) Lambskin
- Good: more sensation
- Bad: Pores on the material allows STD to happen, less allergenic compared to latex, expensive, pores large enough to allow sperm to pass through
4) Spermicidal
- Added with spermicidal, nonoxynol-9
- Study shows that condoms lubricated with spermicidal has no additional benefit in birth control
- Have shorter shelf life
- May cause urinary-tract infections in women
- With frequent use of Nonoxynol-9 increases the risk of HIV transmission
- May have stopped production
5) Textured
- Made to increase sexual pleasure
- Targeted on G-spot & frenulum
- Studded condoms should be avoided because some women experience irritation during intercourse
There are also female condoms in the market where the condom is worn by women. Well I had never seen one before in the market. So its difficult to imagine how to use them
Other uses:
1) Infertility treatment
a. A procedure to encourage child birth for those who may have problem
b. To reduce women’s natural anti-sperm antibodies
c. However no proven clinical test that it could improve pregnancy rate
2) non-lubricated condom over the muzzle of the rifle barrel in order to prevent barrel fouling by keeping out detritus
3) Covering virginal ultrasound probe with a condom reduces the amount of blood and vaginal fluids that the technician must
clean off between patients
4) Hold water during emergency situation
5) Smuggle drugs and cocaine to place the drug in the rectum.
6) Cover microphone to make underwater recording
7) Condoms are used by engineers to keep soil samples dry during soil tests
8) Condoms are used as a one-way valve by paramedics when performing a chest decompression in the field. The decompression
needle is inserted through the condom, and inserted into the chest. The condom folds over the hub allowing air to exit
the chest, but preventing it from entering
Now, the biggest problem now it’s the disposal. If you flush it, it clogs your toilet. If you throw it at the garbage disposal, the rodents will eat it as food. You throw into the sea, it will pollute the environment. What is the best way to dispose it? If you have any idea, feel free to write down some comments.
According to wikipedia, there is also some high-tech condoms in research but still yet to be introduced to the market. Things like spray on condoms or invisible condoms still have some problems to overcome. Well just see whatever future condoms might be.
Anyway back to my topic, I’ve checked wikipedia regarding condoms and to my surprise, it’s a whole lot of information. Who would have guessed that condoms could be used in many ways and so much history in it.
Lets start with some background of the subject. Condoms have histories dated back over 4 centuries ago. The most basic use of it is for pregnancy prevention and also to avoid STD (sexually transmitted disease). Well until here most of us might have knew about it. Its waterproof, durable and elastic. I am sure you knew it too.
The most common material used is latex but some are made from polyurethane, polyisoprene, or lamb intestine. Some history check also shows that in the ancient days, the Chinese used oiled silk paper as condom (glans: a device only covers the top of the penis) or lamb intestine. (Yucks, imagine your sex partner is also doing it with a lamb intestine). In japan, tortoise shell and animal horn is also used. (I could not imagine whether your partner is having sex with you or the animal horn and shell. They are so hard and you might not feel anything.)
Despite the benefit of birth control and avoiding STD, some religion were against the use of condoms. They believe that its immoral to use them. Some also believes that its good to have STD around because it’s the karma for random sex.
Over the years, condoms had been improved in many ways. Today, condoms are more reliable, and also thinner (you can feel more now!)
In March 2003, Switzerland announced that they will produce smaller condoms called “hotshot” specially made for boys aged 12 – 14 years old. (huh, sex at 12? Lucky boys)
Types of Condom:
1) Latex (rubber)
- Most common
- Elastic
- ISO (ISO 4074 Natural latex rubber condoms)
- Used with lubricants ; reduces rubber elasticity
- With Vytex (to remove 90% of proteins responsible for allergy reactions)
2) Synthetic (non-rubber man made)
- Commonly made from polyurethane.
- Other materials: AT-10 resin, polyisoprene
- Better than latex due to better heat conduct, less sensitive with temperature, longer shelf-life, less allergenic, does
not have odor, no protein
- Cons compared to latex: less elastic (more likely to slip & break), more expensive
3) Lambskin
- Good: more sensation
- Bad: Pores on the material allows STD to happen, less allergenic compared to latex, expensive, pores large enough to allow sperm to pass through
4) Spermicidal
- Added with spermicidal, nonoxynol-9
- Study shows that condoms lubricated with spermicidal has no additional benefit in birth control
- Have shorter shelf life
- May cause urinary-tract infections in women
- With frequent use of Nonoxynol-9 increases the risk of HIV transmission
- May have stopped production
5) Textured
- Made to increase sexual pleasure
- Targeted on G-spot & frenulum
- Studded condoms should be avoided because some women experience irritation during intercourse
There are also female condoms in the market where the condom is worn by women. Well I had never seen one before in the market. So its difficult to imagine how to use them
Other uses:
1) Infertility treatment
a. A procedure to encourage child birth for those who may have problem
b. To reduce women’s natural anti-sperm antibodies
c. However no proven clinical test that it could improve pregnancy rate
2) non-lubricated condom over the muzzle of the rifle barrel in order to prevent barrel fouling by keeping out detritus
3) Covering virginal ultrasound probe with a condom reduces the amount of blood and vaginal fluids that the technician must
clean off between patients
4) Hold water during emergency situation
5) Smuggle drugs and cocaine to place the drug in the rectum.
6) Cover microphone to make underwater recording
7) Condoms are used by engineers to keep soil samples dry during soil tests
8) Condoms are used as a one-way valve by paramedics when performing a chest decompression in the field. The decompression
needle is inserted through the condom, and inserted into the chest. The condom folds over the hub allowing air to exit
the chest, but preventing it from entering
Now, the biggest problem now it’s the disposal. If you flush it, it clogs your toilet. If you throw it at the garbage disposal, the rodents will eat it as food. You throw into the sea, it will pollute the environment. What is the best way to dispose it? If you have any idea, feel free to write down some comments.
According to wikipedia, there is also some high-tech condoms in research but still yet to be introduced to the market. Things like spray on condoms or invisible condoms still have some problems to overcome. Well just see whatever future condoms might be.
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Kenny
Long chat with my friends. 7 hours of chatting?!?! That’s crazy
On 26th June 2010, Me, my wife & daughter went to visit a very close friend at his house in Bkt Jelutong. We went along with Ewan and his fiancé. All the three of us, Me, Ewan & the host Chiew Long, had recently bought a house and coincidently all of us bought houses developed by Sime Darby.
Chiew Long bought it first, then Ewan and lastly me. We spent about 7 hours talking about anything and I think it’s a very great thing. At first I was afraid that my wife would be bored but somehow she have a great chit chat session with their wifes too.
Anyway, we have a lot of discussion about everything my wife and I got many valuable experiences and opinions about home improvement. All these ideas are useful for us to develop our future home.
Since then, I had never stop thinking about my house. Yes at times I may have some small argument with my wife when we have some conflicting ideas about how the house shall look like but we can always compromise.
My daughter also found a friend! Chiew Long’s son. Hahahaha. Anyway I enjoyed the night although we basically did nothing except chatting. Its been a long time since I met up with them. If my memories are right, its been at least 1 year since we met.
As I am writing this blog, it also brings memories about how I helped Chiew Long to fetch his wife home when he married and also how Chiew Long helped me to drink all the alcohol when I married.
Now… Both me and Chiew Long are looking forward to Ewan’s marriage. LOL we even pressured Ewan to make babies. MAN we are like Ewan’s mom forcing him to leave his seeds at early age. Funny how things turn out but it was hell of a time.
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Kenny
Life without helpers
Its been a very long week last week since both my Executives are away for business trip. Now I will have to do all those work all by myself since last week until next week. Next week one of them will be back. I hope things will get smoother then.
Currently I am doing 3 man’s job. Mine, and the other 2 executives. Life is tough. I am tired both mentally and physically. I am so looking forward to the coming week.
Anyway, though it’s a busy week, it’s also a fast week. Time flies when u are busy. That’s something that I could confirm. It had been unfair for my wife & daughter because I basically spend less time with them.
I even have to work on Saturday and therefore, the weekly cleaning had been done my my wife alone. She did a very good job on it this week and my room is squeakily clean. My part? Well I did it yesterday (Sunday). That is the least I could do for them.
Hey at least I cleaned the toilet. My wife wanted to do it as well but I told her I will do it. Although 2 days late but I still did it. My wife have sensitive skin so its better that I do it so she wont come complaining that her hand hurts. Heheheh.
I am still busy this week but I think I can spare this 10 minutes writing this blog
Currently I am doing 3 man’s job. Mine, and the other 2 executives. Life is tough. I am tired both mentally and physically. I am so looking forward to the coming week.
Anyway, though it’s a busy week, it’s also a fast week. Time flies when u are busy. That’s something that I could confirm. It had been unfair for my wife & daughter because I basically spend less time with them.
I even have to work on Saturday and therefore, the weekly cleaning had been done my my wife alone. She did a very good job on it this week and my room is squeakily clean. My part? Well I did it yesterday (Sunday). That is the least I could do for them.
Hey at least I cleaned the toilet. My wife wanted to do it as well but I told her I will do it. Although 2 days late but I still did it. My wife have sensitive skin so its better that I do it so she wont come complaining that her hand hurts. Heheheh.
I am still busy this week but I think I can spare this 10 minutes writing this blog
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Kenny
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