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Expecting a new family member

Yes! she is not 3 and a half month pregnant. We are expecting a new family member by approximately End Dec. Yup its a baby rabbit. If all goes well my wife may be in time to celebrate chinese new year after her confinement

Well now i am very busy with my job and also at home. As my wife have a weak body, there are many things that she cant do. So for the time being i will take over her responsibility.

Below is my daily routine until December (i think):


  1. Wake up at 7 am and prepare to work

  2. 715am. Time to buy wife's breakfast

  3. 745am. brought the food back and place it in my room. Drive to work

  4. 8.30am reach office and work like a cow

  5. 5.30 drive home

  6. 6.30 reach home and check my wife status. Sometimes clean the house, sometime wash the laundry.

  7. 7.30 have dinner. make sure daughter eat. wash the dishes

  8. between 730 to 12am: Make milk for both mother and child. tuck them to bed and be ready to assist whenever necessary. On tuesday and fridays i will go temple

  9. go to bed

On saturdays and sundays i will ensure there are food all the time so that my wife will never be hungry. if she is then she will vomit


My new baby is naughty. My wife will not eat rice. NO RICE! so everyday i will have to think of the food for them. anything is ok except RICE. the problem is KLANG HAVE MORE RICE FOOD MORE THAN ANY OTHER FOOD.


My poor wife will have to repeat eating the following



  1. Mee hoon goreng

  2. Mee goreng

  3. Chee Cheong Fun

  4. Mee Siam

  5. Chinese kuih (layer cake, kuih talam...)

  6. Malay Kuih (goreng pisang, Karipap...)

  7. Siew Mai

  8. Pau

  9. Satay

  10. Maggi Goreng

  11. Soup Mee

  12. Prawn Mee

  13. Fried Chicken

  14. Plain vegetable

  15. and many others as long as no rice is included!

It really blow my head off thinking about what to buy. i try now to repeat but since the choices are limited i will have to loop the choices depending on time. i shall try to recall what i bought recently


People say that mum's love is very important. I would like to emphasize on Dad's responsibilities as well. The modern dad will have to go through many things as well but were never mentioned in many blogs.


Being a Dad is a job that one could not quit until they die. A responsible and loving father is as important as a loving mother. Though dad do not nee to go through the 9 months of pregnancy but they will have to accompany their wife through it.


During pregnancy, moms will have unstable emotions. Who is there to comfort them?


During pregnancy, weak moms cant work, who supports the family?


During pregnancy, moms are not able to do the house work, who does them?


During pregnancy, moms could not take care of the other children who does?


During pregnancy, moms need food all the time, who prepares them?


During pregnancy, moms tend to have difficulty walking, who get the things for them?


What i am trying to emphazise here is the importance of a dad. I often see praises on mothers but what about fathers? we are important as well. But anyway, we do it willingly as well. Moms might not agree with me but the fact is dad also share the burden


Since May...

Its been some time since i updated my blog. Well many things had happened.



  1. Expecting a new family member

  2. Busy work life

  3. Lousy work environment

  4. Happy family time

  5. My daughter had grown

Well i think i will write the above title in different blogs.

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